What should I do?

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3 hours ago, Nacho-2589 said:

That is the crux of the issue. There are a few assumptions here. One that OP may have had some sort of live contact. Not stated so not known other than messages. There is an assumption that the woman was providing a service. Without wishing to rake over OP’s experience how do we know it was a woman? If there’s no live contact zoom, FaceTime etc there’s no way to know. I think the issue is far more nuanced than appears at first glance. Which is why stuff like this catches people out. 

Sorry OP.😘 I think we should know this, and know if there was an "actual" any form of service after each time of €€, then we can give more concrete comments. I asked about 💘, cuz most people can still be suckers with goo goo eyeglasses. 

[ok****]

It kinda sounds like you misunderstood what online sex work was imo

[Cu****]

Yesterday at 12:55 PM, PillowPrincess1 said:

You got what you wanted. You men who think women are just kink dispensers and you don’t have to invest your time and yourself into a real relationship prefer to pay for a fake relationship. What do you expect? You think she should be your kink dispenser for free?? If you gave her more than you should have then that’s on you. Perhaps you have an addiction? Perhaps you need to learn *** management? Either way you shouldn’t be blaming her for the transactional relationship you wanted.

This is why I don’t entertain findom cause whew lol

[ThumperG]

7 hours ago, Currentlylost1 said:

This is why I don’t entertain findom cause whew lol

Yeah... Whew is right. I hear ya brother loud and clear. 😉💜😎

[d3****]

All femdoms want is your *** nothing more nothing less the sooner you all understand that the better

[gr****]

Put her in her place! Be a man!

[Deleted Member]

If you mutually discussed adding *** slave to your role in the beginning there should have been a reciprocal agreement to satisfy your needs. If there isn't then that's always a red flag that you don't have a sincere femdom who also cares for your needs.

[Deleted Member]

Get out of that situation or have an upfront discussion with her about it and tell her you either want the *** back or re-evaluation of your relationship.

[sa****]

Im sorry bud she straight up hustled you..im not paying for shit..never have never will..im sure it happens alot..

[Deleted Member]

She took your energy and now you're deeply invested and she's uninterested. That's what hurts you the most. You're having a difficult time getting over the realization you been conned out your ***.

[AndrewBigWilly]

what website did you find them just out of curiosity?

[Go****]

You’ll take your lesson & vet the next Goddess you attempt to serve.

[un****]

Stop giving yourself and your energy to her she most likely got other subs too
If she really cared about you she would be understanding it's hard to find a Mistress who not just wanting a pay pig you just gotta let go don't give her anymore *** work on yourself good luck

[Ji****]

If all you did, was pay her ***, and did not even get a session out of it, you got ripped off stop signing her *** for nothing.

[Se****]

Have compassion for yourself. See yourself in 3’rd person. Feel for yourself the same empathy you would feel for a stranger. Others have mentioned the importance of recovery. I second that, and add that how one recovers matters. The loss is a loss, can’t change that. But you also can take a lot from it, if it becomes an opportunity for you to truly heel. You are obviously discussing this because you are reflecting on yourself, this could lead to brining back your focus to yourself, loving yourself, accepting yourself, feeling compassion for yourself as the victim of ***. For that you need to put aside time for yourself, and find support in the relevant community. You will need mental health counseling from professionals who can guide you in how to best spend the time on yourself, and direct you to the appropriate communities of support. They can also refer you to psychiatrists with the expertise to prescribe you with medications, if you happen to need them. I am sure you are already doing a lot of these though. Wish you the best.

“It is easy in the world to live after the world's opinion; it is easy in solitude to live after our own; but the great [person] is [one] who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.”
Ralph W. Emerson