do**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 I'm new here and was curious why most of the people I message I get kicked back and a message saying this member is using a message criteria filter that your profile doesn't match which means you can't message then. Am I doing something wrong?
un**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 people set parameters for people they want to talk to like above or below a certain age etc it just means you are outside of those parameters
ny**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Most likely you’re out of their age limitations or distance range.
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Did you get the subscription? If you did and you can't message them it seems that they actually set some rules within their profile , hence the reason you can't message them
do**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 You just do not meet their need or want. You can filter who can message you to prevent wasting time. You can filter your messages as well so no one that does not meet your need can message you. For example if you are looking for someone monogamous you can prevent yourself from receiving messages from someone that is looking for a hook up. Hope this helps
ma**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Hey, welcome. No, you are not. It just means their age range filter and/or their “Looking for” filter don’t include your age and gender.
Glitch-5338 Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 No you just don't fit that person's preferences.
le**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Not doing anything wrong, but it could be your age or your location or your kinks. Just gotta find the right one my man.
He**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Its possible, I have one for under 50 because I got sick of getting hit on by people in their 20s and 30s. So 50 and over for me
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Because they have an age bracket set up, so anyone outside that bracket can't message or spank them
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 That means your gender, age, location, etc doesn't match their criteria
Ma**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 I am pretty sure that we are very compliant with the age bracket. And I am more than pretty sure that none of us wanna deal with anybody below 18. So what the f**k is the problem?
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 It just means you're not what they're looking for unfortunately
Charlie4444 Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Well there are the other things too - you try to send someone a message but then it says “this person can only …” and THEN you’re asked to buy a gift for them for the message to go through, as if they are set up to be paid by FET?
Co**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Hi......I m wondering if the answer lies in your description on your Profile? In that you re looking for .... 'fun hit me ups, and are not a Sugar Daddy or Generous.......' While its honest, its not exactly inviting ? Especially the not being generous 😄....I get what you mean , but its off-putting........ Also theres nothing about kink...... I personally like to read a Profile that tells me about someone , so I can start to build a picture . Great Profile pic btw
Co**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Aand.... Ooops the question was particularly about message criteria filters........back to school...read the question 😄 Hope my thoughts help in some way though.......Good luck
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 I have a similar thing. I get spanked but I can't write them because they have a filter.
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 1 hour ago, BrieGarter said: It just means you're not what they're looking for unfortunately Makes sense, but then theres some weird circumstances where the stars should align but the app says nooooo. Msg me btw? We spoke on my last account. 😉
Tr**** Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 You aren't most women's type....isn't that what being a man is? You are not Johnny Depp or some sex symbol; you are man out of her age range. No one is being paid by fet, ive met quite a few real women on here and I am by no woman's standards a "Johnny Depp type". Though what am is real, honest and willing to understand most of these women aren't interested in me 🤷. Humble yourself or just delete the app.
Suckyourtoes Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 I tried to contact a friend I knew from Facebook and she wasn’t aware she had filters set. Maybe the filters are the default and you have to remove them so others can message you.
QXX666 Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Read their profiles before you message, that would help !
Suckyourtoes Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 Could someone send me a message so I can verify that I’m not filtered? It seems very hard to meet anyone on here.
Deleted Member Posted April 1, 2023 Posted April 1, 2023 We are able to set filters bases on age, location, whether you have an image... all sorts. Basically, the person you are trying to message isn't interested in receiving messages from whichever group you fall into - and that's their prerogative. My suggestion is read profiles and only message those who match you and where you feel you match them.
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