Sh**** Posted December 20, 2023 Posted December 20, 2023 It took me a long time to feel comfortable with my kinks. I can honestly say that these days, I don’t really feel guilty, everyone has different things they like, or don’t like and that’s just fine.
Deleted Member Posted December 20, 2023 Author Posted December 20, 2023 I'd like to believe that everyone has that ONE kink/fetish, that they'd do -almost- anything to keep secret; too twisted for polite society. Makes life, and people, more interesting as a whole.
mo**** Posted December 25, 2023 Posted December 25, 2023 After I have asked and been denied! Kink is fun but some don’t understand that desire
De**** Posted December 25, 2023 Posted December 25, 2023 I used to be really secretive about my fetishes and kinks. Some partially still and some I'd probably keep a secret forever. I started opening up about it when I started to meet like-minded people. But of course, like sdome say, as long as you don't hurt anyone. It makes me feel better/more open about it.
Do**** Posted December 25, 2023 Posted December 25, 2023 2 hours ago, DearrJodi said: I used to be really secretive about my fetishes and kinks. Some partially still and some I'd probably keep a secret forever. I started opening up about it when I started to meet like-minded people. But of course, like sdome say, as long as you don't hurt anyone. It makes me feel better/more open about it. Don't let those secrets eat away at you.
DarkArts1066 Posted December 25, 2023 Posted December 25, 2023 As an addendum to my comments near the top of this thread, I actually get a kind of warped pleasure from talking to some people about my kinks. I enjoy describing what turns me on… and on the occasion that excites the person I’m talking with, it tends to lead on to better things - and play with new people. I also discovered a while back that being with someone who enjoys the more extreme play at the end of my kink spectrum allows me to extend my own enjoyment too …? Having permission to push my own limits - with someone else, is very arousing.
Ji**** Posted January 11 Posted January 11 Never regretted anything that has turned me on, or felt guilty or negative in any sort of way.
Sc**** Posted August 8 Posted August 8 Twisted like the body of my sub with no regrets when given permission to have what turns them on.
do**** Posted August 8 Posted August 8 December 25, 2023, DarkArts1066 said: As an addendum to my comments near the top of this thread, I actually get a kind of warped pleasure from talking to some people about my kinks. I enjoy describing what turns me on… and on the occasion that excites the person I’m talking with, it tends to lead on to better things - and play with new people. I also discovered a while back that being with someone who enjoys the more extreme play at the end of my kink spectrum allows me to extend my own enjoyment too …? Having permission to push my own limits - with someone else, is very arousing. Thank you brother for speaking for the both of us. I could not said it better. Appreciate you 👍🏿
Deleted Member Posted August 9 Author Posted August 9 My and my husband have had people say we are f**ked up for what we enjoy and like
Deleted Member Posted August 22 Author Posted August 22 Yes I feel ashamed with some of the stuff that turn me on and being into kink in general. Still trying to embrace this side of me rather than hide it
CD**** Posted August 22 Posted August 22 Nobody should feel ashamed or be described as f**ked up for the kinks or fetishes they are into. You may not be into it yourself, but it costs nothing to respect those that are and similarly, there will be people who are not into the same stuff as you. Thankfully, we're all different and like different things or the world would be a sh*t place.
TP**** Posted August 24 Posted August 24 Thursday at 03:44 PM, CDerRach said: Nobody should feel ashamed or be described as f**ked up for the kinks or fetishes they are into. You may not be into it yourself, but it costs nothing to respect those that are and similarly, there will be people who are not into the same stuff as you. Thankfully, we're all different and like different things or the world would be a sh*t place. However true that statement is, is someone is feeling ashamed or guilty or think they like f’ed things then they shouldn’t be doing those things. With alternative cultures becoming more popular and to avoid external judgements on people psychological exams for various types of jobs/clearances have started asking a very insightful question. ‘Do you engage in sexual behavior you find immoral?’ It’s a yes or a no question. If you do then why do you do it? That is an issue that the individual needs to address. If you think what you like is f’ed, maybe you should try to fix yourself.
br**** Posted August 24 Posted August 24 "It's wondrous the universe...with treasures to satiate desires both subtle and gross; but it's not for the timid"
BlueSkies Posted August 26 Posted August 26 No regrets about what I enjoy, some regrets about not letting some of my playmates know about my kinks - missed opportunities? Communication is key.
Ki**** Posted August 28 Posted August 28 I have no idea what I'm doing but the things I've tried have been way too exciting and memorable. I regret stupid stuff like leaving my dog at home or a smaller tip at a restaurant. Whatever turns me on anymore is more of a amazing experience that I couldn't regret. Sorry for the long response lol
gl**** Posted August 28 Posted August 28 When I'm wearing the taste of someone else and forget to mention it.
St**** Posted August 29 Posted August 29 Not at all I think it makes us who we are and able to understand people better. I think helps us have a wider range of thought instead of people that think they need to fit in a specific box or criteria
Ra**** Posted August 29 Posted August 29 I have no regrets about what turns me on or the things I have done bc of those turn ons
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