Ra**** Posted August 29 Posted August 29 If Ur not comfy w Urself Ur never going to be comfy w anyone else either
Fi**** Posted August 30 Posted August 30 No regerts, but I do understand that vanillas might be offended.
nu**** Posted August 31 Posted August 31 That is a good question. I feel regret for how difficult it makes life being turned on by being nude in public or liking submissive young girls because basically it's all nearly out of bounds . Well OK thanks but I can change the dial, I follow the law but I am a bit ***ed off that people are worried about pronouns but hetero sex is sort stuck in the mid 1950es . What I regret the most is that if your turn ons are rare you can't have women being secretive about what turns them on too because it then gets just too difficult so one settles for a gf with who you don't share the kink. Then society says well that's fine. Well I think a lot marriages go bad because of things like this. If a couple has a kink in common as well that is likely to keep their sex lives much happier etc. So it's sort of important in the end. I think frankly the government should demand people reveal their kinks on a semi private basis so people can match if they want to. The current situation is suboptimal. Some stats mention there 4 men for each woman on dating apps, most dating apps are smarmy and a bit like Instagram, just showing off . I think this app is much better at bringing people together . The sad thing is how geographically thinly distributed we are. Probably because people hide their kinks and stay home. It's silly really, yolo...
ki**** Posted August 31 Posted August 31 3 hours ago, nudity said: That is a good question. I feel regret for how difficult it makes life being turned on by being nude in public or liking submissive young girls because basically it's all nearly out of bounds . Well OK thanks but I can change the dial, I follow the law but I am a bit ***ed off that people are worried about pronouns but hetero sex is sort stuck in the mid 1950es . What I regret the most is that if your turn ons are rare you can't have women being secretive about what turns them on too because it then gets just too difficult so one settles for a gf with who you don't share the kink. Then society says well that's fine. Well I think a lot marriages go bad because of things like this. If a couple has a kink in common as well that is likely to keep their sex lives much happier etc. So it's sort of important in the end. I think frankly the government should demand people reveal their kinks on a semi private basis so people can match if they want to. The current situation is suboptimal. Some stats mention there 4 men for each woman on dating apps, most dating apps are smarmy and a bit like Instagram, just showing off . I think this app is much better at bringing people together . The sad thing is how geographically thinly distributed we are. Probably because people hide their kinks and stay home. It's silly really, yolo... Interesting. I’m always very open about my kinks that I “can’t live without” (obviously I can but wouldn’t be a happy woman). Also fairly open to it on the dating app I’m on by clues in my bio “⛓️😈💦” people either know or they don’t then 😂 unfortunately out in the vinilla mindset there is a lot of kink shame your either accepting and tough skinned or reserved away.
Deleted Member Posted September 1 Author Posted September 1 No,but my sub has. It's a conversation we have every few months. Honestly I think deep down his "wants" have changed but his unwilling to let go of the current version of wants because it's the first time his gotten them met.
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