MY BIGGEST *** REGARDING MY FETISHES IS...

[Ca****]

... that renewed optimism stemming from trying new and different things with new and different people will end up causing me to completely abandon my defenses (again) while I get played like a fiddle by another dishonest manipulative fuck. (Again.)
-That —OR— I wind up getting too goddamn good at what I do, causing unhealthy levels of toxic jealousy which then corrupts the last remaining strands of moral decency of another jaded lover that HAD rejected me in the past. (Again.) You know, that tired old story. (Again.)
-YEAH. I'VE OF THOSE TWO THINGS.

[Va****]

These are all valid ***s. I would like to make fetishes more socially acceptable so all of you cannot ***

[Po****]

.....that I'll never find someone who I can both fully explore kink with and have a real, romantic relationship with

[pi****]

My every wish of ALL the fun things I want to do n I want done to me will ALL Come true.

[Di****]

My biggest *** is not doing it. I have a public sex orgy fetish IDC Wat u are all are involved

[Ph****]

1. Not finding anyone as amazing as my current D/s situation
2. Not knowing when to tap out/safe word and getting myself hurt
3. Someone work adjacent finding me on a site.

[Widowkj]

Being judged

[AV****]

I'll never find someone who genuinely want the same dynamic and at the same time match in other aspects of life.

[sa****]

being found out

[ki****]

Never finding someone I can be with who accepts and encourages such things and wants to explore them with me and I theirs.

[De****]

No woman wants to fulfill this 😢

[Oc****]

Unintended harm. As much as my kink persona sometimes acts otherwise, I don't want to actually hurt them any more than they're willing or desiring to be.

[li****]

Being judged

[Re****]

I am shy and not confident

[Mcvon]

My biggest *** regarding my fetish is wanting to be with a mmf threesome but because I’m not bi I won’t like it but I want to try it so bad is that weird

[so****]

Wanting to explore and make connections in the community but I'm so afraid to risk safety meeting people from online in real life!!

[lo****]

My man will run.

[Ju****]

My biggest *** regarding my fetishes is that I will never find anyone who wishes to be with me, despite my fetishes being quite mild and basic.

[TS****]

Not ever finding the partner I truly need. The true dominant female to OWN me and be my key holder, even if it’s not a live-in relationship that would still be fine if I could ever find her. I’d give just about anything.

[Un****]

Being a Victim of DV/SA, finding men who don't respect my boundaries and have trauma repeat itself again………..

[Ba****]

Not having a safe person to explore them with. Communication and intentions need to be well established.

[su****]

To be worthless as I was created told be used. To have no one to bow to is excruciating terrifying lonely like a fish out of water that is just at the brink of death then put back in just to be taken out again.

[ma****]

My biggest *** is that I won't be able to handle it. That it will turn out to be with the wrong guy who ruins my experience

[Deleted Member]

Trusting the wrong person

[sy****]

That it's too late in life (54) to find people or a community to explore my sapphic side with. That many view a female-presenting middle aged male only as someone to *** and take advantage of.