Submission

[Em****]

Well being a Dom in nature
I’m very aggressive and have to have my way.

So to hand over my power.
To submit
Just makes me feel more dominant

[Ba****]

For me, it's about the trust and the safety I feel in being a sub. Not only do I call myself a sub, but also a brat, kitten, and little. A big part of me being a sub is me "giving up" The controller to my life for a bit. It's me basically saying I need a break and for someone else to think for me, for lack of better words. It's a lot of trust for me to give it up like that. I normally do develop feelings for my Doms. Even if it's just me feeling comfortable and confident with them. As an autistic FtM, it's a big deal to me to be confident and comfortable with someone.

[Mr****]

True submission is to accepting your master dom wishes and actions without any type of complaint or any other verbal denial of any commands or orders passed down on the submissive slave to say anything at all just be what you've submitted to, and to be used shared , be it pleasure, *** or whatever is on the menu at that point in time that master wants, to be jn charactor any other but yourself. To be free from self bondage.

BTW. alwats hear same response, sub /slaves have more pleasure than doms do...

[Re****]

I am a Nurse and I have to make tough decisions on a daily basis. I love that fact when I leave work my Master handles all my decisions, he will take care of me emotionally and physically! I can’t handle any more decisions! I give my Body and soul to my Master!

[Deleted Member]

Thank you everyone this is incredibly helpful as for me as for everyone else

[Je****]

In the vanilla world I am an intimidating Alpha male and often I am holding back an inner rage so as not to go over the top and shred people. My play in the BDSM is the lowest form of sub I can be. I am in fact lower than a slave willing to accept as much *** and *** as the goddesses who allow me to worship them can dish out. This leads to dehumanizing forms of physical and psychological submission for long periods of time. Not only am I physically strained but my goddesses will also dominate me by using my face as their footrest while wearing their dirty street shoes. They will often sit and even stand on my face either ignoring me or chastising me by reminding me I’m just a worthless piece of meaningless garbage to them. It is only at that point where I can finally release my inner rage an channel it in a form of intense physical worship and devotion to not only reclaim my humanity but if given the opportunity by my goddess to sexually dominate her with intense physical pleasure.

[SC****]

As a dominant, having a submissive is a power exchange. She gets the authority and boundaries she needs and I get the fulfillment of being needed. I also get fulfilled by having someone to care for and guide to becoming a better person through rules and consequences. And she will be fulfilled by someone who loves her, guides her and cherishes her. It is a feeling of self worth beyond anything else I have experienced.

[ra****]

I'm a Master. It is 24/7, and it can be fit pleasure

[ra****]

Can be for pleasure, and has been for love in the past.

[Deleted Member]

One the contract is set then I'm his. I would only submit to someone that needs my needs. I don't fwb.

[Deleted Member]

*Once

[Deleted Member]

What makes you feel powerful/in control? Is the question that came to mind for me. Being submissive would be my answer. To explain a devout Christian would walk into a lions den during a famine of their God told them to do so. It takes alot to trust someone when scared and ***. I feel it takes more strength than anything else, personally anyway. With that being said it tends to be accompanied with a much deeper bond and/or connection. Just my opinion I guess, thanks for reading :)

[Deleted Member]

2 hours ago, probablyAStoner said:

What makes you feel powerful/in control? Is the question that came to mind for me. Being submissive would be my answer. To explain a devout Christian would walk into a lions den during a famine of their God told them to do so. It takes alot to trust someone when scared and ***. I feel it takes more strength than anything else, personally anyway. With that being said it tends to be accompanied with a much deeper bond and/or connection. Just my opinion I guess, thanks for reading :)

Great answer thank you

[Em****]

It's easier to submit to someone that I respect, which means they respect me. Treat me like a princess, because my loyalty is/will be deep.
It's not a trust, it's feeling *** in such a rough moment.

[Na****]

it's not just the *** I crave the ***ness I crave the possession I crave the stern voice I crave the structure!! I crave the ***, I crave being owned, completely, I always want to be shown, ***d and reminded who MY MASTER IS!

[ab****]

That’s what I crave but I’ve yet to find a women to do it

[Na****]

Being a submissive is not about being powerless and doing as your Master wishes because you do not have the strength to stand up for yourself. Submission is making a conscious decision to submit to your Masters will because you know he loves you and you trust him to be a man worthy of YOUR gift of submission, a man who will always have your best interest at heart and put your needs before his own. A man who will provide for you, protect you, correct you when necessary and a man who will guide you spiritually.

[Deleted Member]

20 hours ago, Kitten-69 said:

Great answer thank you

Thank you! I feel like I gotta ruin it now though xD jkjk

[ab****]

I like to be completely taken control of and I don’t give trust very well so when I do it’s a big deal

[da****]

As a dominant for me personally, I take the gift of a subs submission very seriously. It's a 24/7 responsibility for me and i require my subs to always communicate openly so I know they are okay, in and out of scenes. And if I have someone's submission, there wouldn't be anything I wouldn't do to take care of them and protect them. After time, there definitely is a special kind of love and trust that comes with that kind of dynamic, and done properly it can be a really fun dynamic for the Dominant/s and submissive/s but it can also be a really good, loving, and healthy relationship.
 

[Deleted Member]

I am a feminine sub and I think it has to do with being an escape from my my daily life! The freedom of expression in a realm that I don’t typically encounter in my vanilla lifestyle is both a huge turn-on as well as the chance to dress up and play with gender roles makes being a sub wicked fun :)

[No****]

for me, being a sub, yet protective of those i love, it's about trusting someone... i don't submit to those i don't know, let alone love...

[Mr****]

I teach my subs how to live their lives. I get the pleasure of knowing they’re mine and can’t see anything beyond me. They’ll do whatever I ask them to in terms of sex and that type of domination really turns me on. My little babies.

[ab****]

I’m a feminine sub as well but I don’t have a chance to be feminine or submissive I’ve always wanted to switch roles and find me a female dom for a relationship as well as the dom/sun relationship

[Deleted Member]

Being called good boy or good slave or any variation of that 🥴🥴🥴