Submission

[Re****]

I feed on it especially when its not kust given bit i have to take it

[bo****]

Receiving *** is so satisfying because it releases my pent up emotions. I equate *** with joy.

[Fu****]

I use kink as a form of therapy, and I asked my actual therapist about it because I was concerned it was an unhealthy coping mechanism at first, but it really does help.

As a sub my main kink is being used for someone else's pleasure/fun/ect and not being considered a person more like a really nice sex toy lol. In my regular life I used to struggle with being a people pleaser, never saying no, and helping others until I ran myself into the ground. Now I'm much better at taking care of myself first and any built up people pleasing energy I have can be satisfied with kinky sex.

[fu****]

I’ve never truly submitted in practice outside of sex workers. (Not for want of trying) - the feeling it envokes in me other than arousal (obvs) all stems back to being a boy and surrounded by immensely powerful and confident female unit (mums and friends alike) who made me feel safe in my own skin, but would also keep me in check and very easily upset me if I displeased them. As result I worship and adore woman putting them on a pedestal. I feel safe and cared for when I’ve been *** toward certain (normally natural maternal energy) partners but also had my entire being ripped out betrayed and stamped on by partners. (I’ve done my fair share) can be disturbingly toxic but beautiful nonetheless. I so badly want to experience submitting in a healthy way to a practised domme or mistress in any context. As it goes deep for me. 🌶️

[fu****]

I want to be used but not necessarily needed. ***ed, humiliated, disciplined and hopefully ultimately be able to please and be cared for. 😅 if Im a good boy. Just can’t help being f**kn naughty sometimes tho 😈

[Th****]

I see it as a form of power for the sub. True submission is a choice that a sub makes. Therefore it's in thier control.

[Deleted Member]

As a submissive, my joy is derived from being obedient and serving my Dominant well. Making their life easier and making them happy is the best feeling. For me...a D/s dynamic is what I desire for a full romantic relationship. If it were bedroom or kink only, that's Top/ bottom. I prefer a dynamic that is 24/7. It feeds my soul.

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May 20, JerseyDmat said:

In the vanilla world I am an intimidating Alpha male and often I am holding back an inner rage so as not to go over the top and shred people. My play in the BDSM is the lowest form of sub I can be. I am in fact lower than a slave willing to accept as much *** and *** as the goddesses who allow me to worship them can dish out. This leads to dehumanizing forms of physical and psychological submission for long periods of time. Not only am I physically strained but my goddesses will also dominate me by using my face as their footrest while wearing their dirty street shoes. They will often sit and even stand on my face either ignoring me or chastising me by reminding me I’m just a worthless piece of meaningless garbage to them. It is only at that point where I can finally release my inner rage an channel it in a form of intense physical worship and devotion to not only reclaim my humanity but if given the opportunity by my goddess to sexually dominate her with intense physical pleasure.

Using the phrase "lower than a slave" shows that you don't really know know much about this lifestyle. You may know findommes & been degraded but that's not a dynamic or reflection of a true relationship. It's a service. A kink. Slaves and subs are actually some of the strongest, most intelligent & capable people I've ever known. They spend their lives giving back to their communities and Dominants. Selflessness is not for the weak.

[Deleted Member]

Is that just a gesture of giving yourself in your partners hands, do you have any feelings involved?

In a scenario where the conversations made beforehand proved a clear dynamic in what the both sides want, need; I guess the feelings will become the playground itself for me, when it comes to feelings we can all be slaves to our feelings cause they can overtake all, I like that it also can go for my Dom partner. So, it also enhances my compassion. It's also the very performance of gestures that both sides express, the authenticity of it all. So, the gestures performed could be motivated by my feelings in the first place.

Is it just a matter of trust for you?

Yes and no. I don't mainly look for trust but if it comes the full submission and domination part of the exchange, which I think that alone needs a certain trust and sacrifice of the both parties to happen; the euphoric feelings that happen afterwards definitely include the admiration I have to the fact that a certain level of trust has been formed and executed successfully. Definitely impressive to my cynical self!

[Deleted Member]

For me, I want somewhere as to where I can be *** and not need to be in control of everything. It's a peace of mind where I have someone I trust so fully that I can jump, and I know that they will make sure I don't get damaged.