I am loving ENM so far. What's your experience?

[Deleted Member]

It's been like three weeks since we made it official. It's tough. A lot of work. We had good communication to start with, and our communication has tripled!
Nothing but good had come if it so far. My wife is happier. Hornier for me. She even lost some weight.
I gotta say it feels good when another woman calls me yummy. And the novelty of the two different women. With their unique styles, feelings and skills. It's uplifting.

Are you enm? How long? How is it working out? Anything I should watch out for, or tips as we go?

[Goodtime36]

My wife and I have been ENM/Swingers for about 7 months. Our communication has never been better, especially about hard topics. Our honesty with our feelings has also never been better. I like your wife, my wife has never wanted me more and let's me know like never before. And yes having another woman hit on me is definitely a confidence boost.

[Co****]

Been ENM for about two months now. Definitely a lot of hard work. But you aren't kidding about communication being better and higher quality too. My wife is happy and embracing herself, her libido is through the roof, and she's seeing herself like I see her.

I haven't had any experiences with other people myself yet, but I'm getting out and meeting people, so hopeful something will develop soon.

[ey****]

7 years

it's generally great but not without it's challenges.  The good times last. But the problems and challenges do also. 

It does help that my primary relationship is so solid 

[Jo****]

We've been ENM about a month or so, and while I've had no luck with other women, my wife has been a lot more open about her desires and wants as well. We had a good talk about the ground rules, and our communication has been solid since.

[lo****]

I will agree with the communication just getting better and better. Sometimes my nesting partner and I take time to focus on making our relationship stronger. If the base gets shakey, you need to work on it. Like any relationship worth having.

[Ye****]

Where do people feel is the best place to meet others that also want ENM?

[BD****]

Would love to get my lady in this kind of relationship

[lo****]

I'm really liking it

[Mr****]

What's is enm

[ey****]

10 hours ago, MrCashroll said:

What's is enm

Ethical Non Monogamy

(though, some would argue the E is not appropriate, that's a longer story)

basically any form of open relationship

[Mo****]

I've been ENM now for 3 months ans am also loving it. The freedom and openness among partners are the biggest perks