Vetting Submissives

[Sh****]

It could be naive of me, but I imagine the vetting process is more or less the same whether you’re a Dom vetting a sub or vice versa. In my case, I’d be looking to build a connection, learn about who they are, as a person, first, and foremost, do our personalities gel, are we looking for the same things etc and go from there 

[Da****]

In addition.....vetting is critical for the safety of the Dom. Afterall. When a sub leaves your home....and she/he is covered in bruises and looks as though they have been sexually ***ed.......well that person could say anything they wanted. And that could have Life altering ramifications. I've seen it happen. So as much as the sub needs to be safe......So does the Dom. VETTING is an important part of that process.