Deleted Member Posted June 9, 2023 Posted June 9, 2023 A fake dom (or sub for that matter) is anyone NOT actually in the lifestyle, is only out for themselves and is only interested in bad intentions (i.e. harm to another, scamming for ***, etc.). And would agree there are a LOT on here and on other apps or platforms. Is why trust, honesty, understanding and actually LIVING the lifestyle is of utmost importance. Better to be cautious and pay attention than risk issues you may regret.
th**** Posted April 24 Posted April 24 Would a master/mistress really want *** as proof of submission?
Ki**** Posted April 25 Posted April 25  I am new to the lifestyle and would like to learn more about this process and what I can expect from a Dom
Mu**** Posted June 6 Posted June 6 Anyone who has misconceptions or miss guided views, perspective, or understanding about the lifestyle. Anyone who isn’t willing to be or remain teachable should be avoided. Anyone that doesn’t respect a person’s boundaries or prioritize you safety or well being should also be avoided. First an foremost as the submissive I still have all the power. No one is entitled to my submission just because they call themselves Dom. My submission is earned not giving.
AG**** Posted June 10 Posted June 10 April 24, theneongod1 said: Would a master/mistress really want *** as proof of submission? only if they are financially submissive and you have a contract agreed apon by both of you in writings what is to be expected and what you are agreeing to is mutually agreed apon without being coerced or ***d into doing anything that you don't agree to or that you are uncomfortable with or cannot afford everything should always be agreed on by both party and if necessary a third party to look over to make sure that everything is mutual and not being coerced or ***d in any way. But I have heard of Financial slavertude and financial dominance but it's kind of rare in my neck of the woods.
AG**** Posted June 10 Posted June 10 Ordinarily I would say that there is not going to be a payment for being a Dom or a mistress and less agreed upon at the very beginning for some type of monetary amount for their services or in certain cases Financial servitude or dominance but like I said that's tends to be a little rarer in the community that I'm aware of
Da**** Posted August 7 Posted August 7 There are people with dominant personalities, and there are abusive a**hats who don't respect boundaries, and if you call them on it gaslight you and say you're not a "true submissive, slave, whatever" . They have no concept of responsibility for their sub/slave. They adopt a meaningless title (calling yourself a Dom only matters if you can back it up with deeds, and taking responsibility) because they somehow justifies them being an abusive a**hat.
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