Trust

[Deleted Member]

My primary goal when starting to train a new submissive is to gain their trust through small acts. What are your memorable first acts of submission in new D/S relationships?

[de****]

Him buying me iced coffee and always getting an iced water to drink also to make sure I stay hydrated

[Deleted Member]

Self-care and improvement tasks/rules are great commands to build trust.

[Deleted Member]

That's usually where I start too.

[he****]

As someone who was a sub prior.... I'd say absolutely tender soft moments, making me feel safe in public, him bathing me from head to toe... making me feel 1000% confident in my skin no matter how I previously felt about myself.

[Va****]

Trust is something given to you when you have a steady plan of where you want the relationship to go, when you're just feeling people out, certain vibrations stand out over unclear vibrations, but if you've got it figured they'll know too

[Re****]

Aftercare and familiar conversations, remembering my stories.

[sh****]

My thing when meeting a new sub is actually listening to her to understand what she needs, so when the time to train comes I know how to approach it properly so she’s always comfortable, and willing to push boundaries, and there have been a few occasions where they would exceed what I was training them for, and actually go into things they never knew they were capable of🤔

[Deleted Member]

5 hours ago, Reyna-Taylor said:

Aftercare and familiar conversations, remembering my stories.

This 💯