Trying to find a trans friendly BDSM lounge or munch

[In****]

Hello! So I'm very new to the BDSM world, and I'm a Transfem who's very submissive. Recently I've heard about Lounges & Munches that seem pretty interesting but, sadly I don't have anyone in the BDSM world that could help me find one and since I'm pretty much alone in this I'm way too terrified to look for one or even go by myself. I live in the Lancaster, PA area and I'm not too sure if I have anything around me like a Lounge or Munch.

[bo****]

Fetlife* is a forum site for all things bdsm and fetish related you can search for local events on there

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[p1****]

Good luck friend 😊

[Deleted Member]

Hi. Munches are usually a vanilla type gathering of kink folk where they can meet others in the community and talk while grabbing some food. Generally very mellow and low key. If you have a Fetlife account that's actually the best site to find events and munches that are local to you. They should all be trans friendly. Hope that's helpful. Welcome to your new journey.

[Je****]

Hi gensis. I’m a tgirl who lives in Hellertown. I looked but didn’t really see anything specific in Lancaster. However, we have a good community in the Allentown Lehigh valley area and munches are held the last Tuesday of every month. I know it’s a bit of a haul but if you would like, I’d be happy to accompany you as a friend. Maybe you can meet someone there. Please feel free to message me privately

[je****]

You may find some activity in the Reading or Philadelphia areas, check with the local BDSM shops boutiques they usually have the inside track on what’s available in the area. And you can always pick up some new gear

[Da****]

If you try Fetlife you'd be able to find them more common than you think

[Pa****]

CLUB PITT has all gender night every Thursday in Pittsburgh.