gu**** Posted July 6, 2023 Posted July 6, 2023 Apart if being a switch is switchi g between sub and dom and apart of the doms duties is respecting the subs boundaries, have firm boundaries and tell them that subs with strong boundaries is fine, going over a safe word system to determine those boundaries in the scene can be verry helpfull, like stop light safe words, green = good to go, yellow = check in there is something wrong/ we need to discuss something, and red = stop tue session ofcourse, if they were dommjng some one else they should expect to respect their boundaries, just as your boundaries should be expected to be followed, hope this helped
su**** Posted July 6, 2023 Posted July 6, 2023 Old fashioned.. Old school DOM here... a dominant is a dominant the submissive is the submissive peiord... if the dominant chooses to reward his sub with little control, this is a normal reward or actions and submission of the sub. You have shown your sub weakness that has to be addressed if it is to continue your relationship. You have to either take control with a large disciplinary action, or just walk away. Your subs action or reaction to your discipline should tell you what road to go. Hope this helps, good luck in the future
CopperKnob Posted July 6, 2023 Posted July 6, 2023 2 hours ago, subhunting said: Old fashioned.. Old school DOM here... a dominant is a dominant the submissive is the submissive peiord... if the dominant chooses to reward his sub with little control, this is a normal reward or actions and submission of the sub. You have shown your sub weakness that has to be addressed if it is to continue your relationship. You have to either take control with a large disciplinary action, or just walk away. Your subs action or reaction to your discipline should tell you what road to go. Hope this helps, good luck in the future Dom's can't display moments of weakness? Clap trap which is nothing more than a receipe for disaster
ey**** Posted July 6, 2023 Posted July 6, 2023 3 hours ago, subhunting said: Old fashioned.. Old school DOM here... a dominant is a dominant the submissive is the submissive peiord.. that's not old school. that was more some 90s uber-Dom thinking which has no grasp on reality
La**** Posted July 9, 2023 Posted July 9, 2023 Bring in another sub/switch for them to experiment with under your supervision
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