New to everything

[st****]

How do u describe what you want when you get Tongue tied

[Av****]

Showing what you like !

[Sa****]

Try writing it down and giving it to your other

[Fi****]

That's hard to do!

[Mi****]

I show with my hands or move their hands to what I want.

[le****]

Sometimes you just need to find a person who knows how to connect with you and being out your best

[ge****]

It depends on the context and whether you mean in person, or in messages - either way maybe try typing out a message to yourself about what you are looking for, read it through and edit it until you are happy with it, then read it through several times.
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If it's in messages then just send what you typed. In person is a little trickier but having read it through and grown comfortable with it, should help with your confidence to speak it.

[na****]

I ask them to ask questions and I can say yes or no

[ab****]

Usually something I'm not used to asking for certain kinks or even asking a partner a serious question I get tied up easy

[Deleted Member]

Well generally i sound like that screaming goat when I'm tongue tied lmao

[HS****]

If you find what you like through porn. Share the video. Let the video do the talking for you. Then Q and A after with your partner

[Kurious_Kat]

I'm new to everything, and have found that completing a menu of kinks has been really useful.
You can find a lot of examples online.
Not only does it help you identify what you're interested in doing right now, it can also be shared to explain what you're looking to explore 🙂

[Rew83]

2 ways hand jesters of if possible write down

[ph****]

Write it on your forehead and get on your knees if front of him or her

[Di****]

I'll agree with if seeing on porn, send it to them. But instead, watch it together so you can get a preliminary reaction. Follow up with "we should try that". Corny but it has worked for me

[Deleted Member]

Post it note game x

[42****]

Have a couple drinks first 😊

[Mr****]

By showing

[el****]

This is such a hard question in the beginning you might feel a certain way and down the road you’ll find more things about yourself something I will always tell people in this type of lifestyle is high communication I don’t like to play games I want what I want so when I’m interested I lay it all down and if they feel way I’m looking for is a good fit for them then I see how well we connect.

[Co****]

I'd say just brainstorm with pen and paper first; just jot down your strongest and clearest wants to start and just make a list of things that you really like to do and want to try. Maybe write down things that turn you on,your ideal sexual encounter....there's no rush,no pressure and no wrong answers. Just be thoughtful and honest and when you're happy with what you got, refine it or rewrite as you'd like.

[Deleted Member]

Thursday at 08:27 PM, 420guy4fun said:

Have a couple drinks first 😊

Oh no 🚩

[Vi****]

Get a chocolate tongue depressor

[ch****]

put it in writing

[Deleted Member]

I send sex gifs showing exactly what I'm seeking prior x

[ha****]

Mumble it