Kink Date Spoiled?

[Deleted Member]

Communication, they either will or won't understand

[ch****]

A period stops nothing but a sentence.

[lo****]

Some men can feel the cups but just explain and if your into anal and oral, there are 2 other options that will easily satisfy him.

[we****]

Lay down a towel or blanket

[ey****]

it depends, specifically, what you had planned and how the period might affect that.

there's folk I've played with who've been caught out and it's ruled out, say facesitting and watersports - but we could do other things instead

A good play partner should be flexible and accept plans can change, especially with unexpected circumstances - and if this means there's stuff they can't do but wanted to, well, they have to accept nature 

but then I know others where, it's not about the activities - that, they're actually in *** and getting cramp - so, yeah, if playing is going to cause discomfort then postpone.  

Edited September 3, 2023 by eyemblacksheep

[wi****]

Don't cancel, some of us men are open to that time of the month and empathetic

[Deleted Member]

Redwings

[Charms]

22 hours ago, DaddysHere2please said:

Actually now that I think of it I was with a British woman from Europe and she had some cup they put up there that caught the ***…I’m between 8-9 and I got no *** on me…
Was in my thirties when that happened and had never ever heard of such a thing

It's a menstrual cup. You can buy them on amazon. Or some stores.

[an****]

Option (B) only in the back 😂😂😂

[Charms]

Sorry my last comment posted twice.

 

If you have not had a smear test lately please go get 1. A period early can be a number of things. But getting a smear test is a good idea. Also see if you can get your thyroid level checked. I didn't know till I saw my Dr as I have thyroid problems that it can affect your period. I was have periods every 2 weeks . I had thyroid problems. Growths in my womb an cancer cells.

 

I keep  these things private normaly but I thought I'd share as not many woman have commented. Just lots of people going you can still have sex.

 

I spent covid back an forth to my local hospital  having all sorts of treatment during covid. If any person wants to have a serious talk about things iv mentioned pls feel free to message me.

 

Sufferd with thyroid problems for a few years. I get ***s taken every few months to make sure I take the right thyroid meds. 

 

Also a hormonal imbalance can change your period time. Or it can just be your body being a *** in the but

[DR****]

Put a towel down and crack on

[Si****]

If it is a kink date then it shouldn't be a problem, however if you are concerned why not just talk to them about it a find out?

[li****]

It really comes down to communication with your partner and what you're comfortable with.

I second what was said above about also checking with. Dr if your menses aren't regular or cause you distress. I suffered needlessly with ultra heavy, ***ful, irregular, menses for nearly 2 decades just to find out that with a small amount of 2 different hormones replaced by oral tablets, could make my menses much easier and I could actually plan around the regularity on my calendar.

[wi****]

Shit I'd still go down on u . I ain't askurd. I got my red wings long ago

[Ha****]

Just wait until next month lol

[Deleted Member]

Depends on the partner, might wanna have that convo with them. If you really want it to go through, and If you’re the sub, share and let them lead the way they want this to play out.

If you’re the domme, tease the shit out of them.

Most importantly, just chat with them.

[el****]

So question for the ladies. If your in the middle of sex and you either A) start than or B) he tears you and you bleed, do you feel awkward about it do you think the guy feels more awkward. It’s happened to me a few times where in the middle of sex she would start bleeding and that was either her start or I was bigger than what she’s used to.

[li****]

Yesterday at 12:00 AM, ellisville887 said:

So question for the ladies. If your in the middle of sex and you either A) start than or B) he tears you and you bleed, do you feel awkward about it do you think the guy feels more awkward. It’s happened to me a few times where in the middle of sex she would start bleeding and that was either her start or I was bigger than what she’s used to.

It really depends on the dynamic I have with them. If we already play during my menses, it's NBD. If they are a new partner.... It *can* be awkward, but as I've gotten older I find that the partners do too, and they older the men are, the less likely they are too be squicked out by a little ***. I only tend to feel awkward about it if they act awkward about it. Sex in general is messy and rather awkward at times. They more experienced a person gets, the more desensitized they become too the awkwardness that comes with it.The better they communicate too, the less awkward at tends to be.

[is****]

Wednesday at 12:00 AM, ellisville887 said:

So question for the ladies. If your in the middle of sex and you either A) start than or B) he tears you and you bleed, do you feel awkward about it do you think the guy feels more awkward. It’s happened to me a few times where in the middle of sex she would start bleeding and that was either her start or I was bigger than what she’s used to.

Ive actually been in that situation before and the guy was so understanding and nice about the whole situation. I felt embarrassed by the whole situation when it was our first time together and there wasn’t a level of comfort that existed as would exist with someone I’ve been playing with on an ongoing basis. I would start bleeding bc he was bigger than I was normally used to. Ellisville, how do you feel about that situation as a man? What’s your feeling about it?

[bu****]

I’d still play, *** don’t bother me

[Deleted Member]

They make black towels for a reason

[Do****]

It all depends on the Dom and what is at stake for the day. I would confront your Dom about the situation at hand.

[MasterDarcy1979]

 

Edited November 2, 2023 by MasterDarcy1979