So I'm new to all this

[Deleted Member]

I'm pretty much sure I'm a sub but as a lesbian im finding it really hard to find a lesbian dom I've seen about going to the clubs but I'm really anxious about that sort of thing. 

[ey****]

I think it doesn't help (and this is something I can also be guilty of) that a lot of the 'scene' seems bias towards M/f or F/m (and even M/m gets much more shout than F/f)

However - there are F/f couples I know - or have seen - so, do exist.  Obviously it can be a little trickier - but, try to be reassured that this isn't going to be like seeking hens teeth.

[Domdoc-3683]

There are no hard and fast rules but yes if you are looking for it am sure you will find it as i Know such couples (F_F) are there might take you a little longer to find the right person but you willl.. all the best

[Mz****]

I know there's masses of bi/hetroflexible Dommes and switches, perhaps that might be a solution? A switch could also be ideal if you're not 100% sure of your role, room to experiment a bit more..but of course it depends what exactly you're looking for, friendship, mentoring, kinky dates, sessions, fwb, or a relationship to name but a few..I wish you the best of luck, and welcome to Fetish.com x

 

[Friskygush]

Jesse ,I'm Domme and I have a sissy maid...I wouldn't mind you coming to a fetish night out with us...I'll hold your hand

[Deleted Member]

Thanks for your reply I'm just not used to being in these situations I usually keep it all to myself it's strange for me to get used to talking freely about everything

[Gi****]

@Jessie8345 I'm fairly new to this as well, but you might want to think about what you're looking for. Do you want a long term relationship with someone or just someone for fun here and there? Do you want a 24/7 Ds relationship or do you just want to spice it up in the bedroom? Once you know, for sure, what you want, that will help you figure out where to look. My wife and I have been together for 18 yrs, and I'm not looking for a 24/7 thing, just want to play around with it more.  Feel free to message me if you have any questions or want to talk about it.