New to this

[Johnny-5296]

Hi everyone I’m very new to this and need some guidance into finding people to chat to with the same interests 

are there any genuine females out there that take people’s kinky desires seriously or is this just the way of life in the fetish community. 

And how do you find people to share your position away from this site 

any reply will be helpful I’m sure 

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[ey****]

2 hours ago, Johnny-5296 said:

are there any genuine females out there that take people’s kinky desires seriously or is this just the way of life in the fetish community. 

it depends what you mean by "genuine", "kinky desires" and "way of life"

this is a problem I often speak of.

That, there's (usually) men who have somewhat idea of fantasies or things they want to try.  That's cool.  But, there's usually a sense of expectancy that there'll be someone who just automatically wants to do them for them. 

Why *should* someone take a strangers fantasies seriously?

I mean, I've got fantasies - and someone might be like "yeah - that's cool" but why would they want to do it *with me* why would they want to place any importance on *my* fantasies.

A lot of this ties in with entitlement - and that's a big problem within the fetish community of (usually) men who have a fantasy or "something they want to try" and then the disappointment that someone doesn't want to drop everything and do it for/with a stranger

 

[Mi****]

I say this all the time but the best way to meet people who are into the same things as you is to go where they go and meet them face to face. There are plenty of genuine people but they are less likely to facilitate the fantasies of a stranger on the internet than they are someone they’ve met and become friends with. 

While there is no guarantee anyone will want to do those fantasies with you there is a greater chance if they know you too are a genuine person