Can I completely change myself from a sub to a Dom?

[dj****]

I'm just wondering if it's possible to go from one to the other or is it just that once your a submissive person you're stuck that way

[bi****]

Everything is always a choice, my boy.

[ja****]

You can be a switch.

[ey****]

there are folk I know where to anyone who knows them; they are a Dominant

but, I know, they switch in private life, or are a sub to someone, or "were a sub"

there are some communities where you had to experience being a sub before you could become a Dom.

[li****]

Good doms seem to have started as sub; so, I guess the answer is: yes.

Only ime; which is what it is.

[Su****]

Definitely possible. Some people switch and go from dom to sub or vice versa. I started out as a switch and now I’m just completely a sub.

[Ma****]

Anything is possible

[Tt****]

It depends on each person. I am a sub and have tried to be a dom, but hate it. It's always up to you though and why not try it if you want to?

[Spriguns]

Possible but it's quite a change , I am a sub and will stay that way

[qu****]

You can definitely switch. Then you know both sides which makes you even better

[Sh****]

I think it’s possible for sure. We all learn and change over time, so it would make sense you might discover that you’re more of a Dom or switch.

[Deleted Member]

I’m dominant but have been submissive with the right partner … I think context is key 🔑

[Ab****]

There is literally nothing about this lifestyle that one is stuck with, my friend.

What you’re wondering is if you might be one or the other, or a Switch. Explore it with someone you vibe with and trust. This whole thing is about one’s truth, not expectation.

[Deleted Member]

I'd say it's personality dependant, some people are naturally more dominant and others submissive, some switch between them, but you'll know which you are in how you feel in each role, sometimes a partner can bring different sides out of you, it's all experience, connection & trust.

[Ve****]

You can switch if you have the desire and drive. It might not be like flipping a light off/on, and it might be clumsy and awkward at first, but you’ll get there. I recommend working on it with a partner you trust. Make your mistakes with someone who knows you and can help you improve.

[th****]

Yeah you can do whatever you want, it’s not a game, it’s your life

[Di****]

I think there’s an old saying.
“Whatever floats your boat”

[yo****]

It's possible depending on the environment amd energy of ur partner, like idk if I could ever switch myself, but I know tho who can.......but also if ur not a dominant type,don't try to change for someone, it won't go well,only go about it,if that's how u feel

[Cu****]

I'm a very submissive woman. But I do have a dominant side. Just depends on the situation I'm in when that Dom side comes out.

[Deleted Member]

Always expect the unexpected if you feel confident in that role then give it a shot but like most people have said if you have a partner or some one to mentor you so you don’t make mistakes it’s always good to try new things and if you don’t like it you can always gain experience and know you tried

[Deleted Member]

Be what you want to be, switch it up, explore and appreciate each role

[Ki****]

I think we shouldn't do anything that dosent feel natural to us. We only know what is really right for us by trying different things and listening ourselves about how we feel about each experience.

[au****]

Of course you can, if you play any role for long enough it will become second nature but that doesn’t mean you will enjoy it as much.

[Sa****]

If you have to ask.... you are stuck in the place you are bro, sorry.

[Si****]

It takes a certain person to make me switch to sub, but a couple of people have been very good Dommes to me, and I have enjoyed it immensely…
Being in control in all areas of my life, I sometimes need that release…
It takes a great amount of trust