BabyG1 Posted September 6, 2019 Posted September 6, 2019 Hi I'm new to being a sub I used to be a dom for 6 years and my dom is new too he is great at edging giving non sexual commands and doling out punishments but has yet to give me orders in bed or *** me to do so much as kneel. Is this normal? How can I earn my color?
ey**** Posted September 6, 2019 Posted September 6, 2019 I think he's great at doing what he likes. Which is good. If he's not giving orders in bed or having you kneel then simply he might not be into that.
Deleted Member Posted September 6, 2019 Posted September 6, 2019 I wouldn't say that you need to earn your color obviously you having been a dom for 6 years you will have your own views of what you expect from a sub and you was experienced in it aswell. So maybe your new dom is still just finding his feet when it comes to what he expects from you just scratching the surface of his kinks so give it time and I'm sure more will come out but if your wanting to be controlled more or "earn your colors" maybe talk to him explore what it is he's into maybe even open there eyes to things they may not have considered.
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