Crying men

[Sa****]

I find emotional intimacy to be incredibly attractive. ❤️

[ri****]

Is crying how I feel passion and emotions! My euphoria and happiness more intense after cry!

[wa****]

I've got my reasons why I don't tend to cry much. I've done so twice in the last 4 years. One that I don't talk about and the other was when my grandfather passed.... Which was the only funeral I've ever cried at. If anyone wants to shame me for those two times, oh well. I've long since given up caring about other people's opinions. I care more about what my dog and three cats think of me.

[yo****]

Im crying rite now.

[el****]

December 25, 2023, paddledinwetjeans said:

I enjoy this reaction from a man . Was curious if it came with ***

It’s not embarrassing, but I have found many cis females to find it uncomfortable, unexpected, and unattractive. Which is hella ironic and ridiculous considering they almost always complain they want a sensitive man in touch with his emotions. Surprise! Men can be just as emotional as women! Sorry ladies for any generalizations I’m making. I’m sure there are understanding complete women out there who feel differently. In the context of ***, I would think it’s expected. I would think OP you might want to confirm the *** part. That may be a separate kink your partner may be willing to explore if discussed. There are many ways to humiliate. Crying doesn’t equal ***. It can be a physiological response as one commenter mentioned… a smokey room, or dust, or spicy food can all bring tears. Sadness, loss, grief, mourning. In many cases it is more about the comfort and safety level of the environment and those in it. I’ll hold back tears and bury emotions in many contexts until I’m in a safe place, alone or with people I trust, before I let myself feel the *** etc that get released in some cases with a nice intense cry.

[Da****]

As many men, I was taught not to cry from a very young age. As society often do. Then one of my father siblings died and I saw him crying. Then as my grandparents grew old, each departure from their house brought tears to him and my grandfather to. But, I, was not to cry. I was not to show weakness, which know now to be vulnerability. I was preyed upon in my ***age life and I didn't want to present any opportunity for anyone to attack me. I was a boy and if I wanted to be a man, I didn't have the right to cry. Up until I could no longer cry. Even if I needed to, wanted to, my body just refused to let the tears go. My cries were dying in my throat creating a ***ful pressure in my chest. It took me years of work to get free. Now, I feel no shame when I cry. I'm not embarrassed anymore. Albeit, my girlfriend has always been uncomfortable with me crying, but that's another story.

[Mu****]

It's difficult to cope or express emotions around another Man. Everyone has a different upbringing, my upbringing was to be as macho as you can and not to ever cry in front of another man. Showing emotions That will display a sign of weakness, (so they said).
My Father was a tough Man. I never saw a tear come from his eye. He always held his position as a Man, and nothing less. Even though there was a lot of crying going on in our home.
I had the opportunity to serve our (USA) Country during a crucial time. Before we departed into the unknown, we (my family) gathered at my home for one last get together all of us, together.
I was already a full blown Man, 33 years of age and my father was 53. While deployed, I received news that my Father had passed away. Coming back home from Iraq in April of 2004 to bury my father is a memory I will never forget. I did not cry when I received the news and I did not cry on the way home.
But seeing him in the casket brought me to my knees. The feeling within was uncontrollable, the *** I felt in my heart was unbearable. I never knew that Man's heart could be broken seeing another man in his casket.
The environment we were in during the campaign was brutal. Yet, I had no emotional feelings seeing the loss of life in the battlefield.
April 26 was the 20th anniversary of my Father's Passing. When he died, he was 53, I am currently 53. What I learned after my father's passing; it doesn't make you less of a Man, if you Cry.

[Od****]

I've always cried despite trying to hold it back, at somepoint it just burst through which is probably a good thing despite for most of my life feeling ashamed by it. If I wasn't able to cry especially after last yr( I lost my mum, my uncle and a very good friend I'd made through working as a bouncer) I think I'd have killed myself the grief was that much. Its a natural response no man should feel ashamed for letting go some times its really need, but there's a difference from crying through grief and depression or stress there are folk out there that use it as a manipulative tool to get they're own way which I disagree with. It'll belittles the struggle that we as men go through because every fibre that a certain generation where taught goes against showing any form of weakness as some put it

[Br****]

I have always been overly emotional and it's easy for me to cry. Thanks to pressure I would either cry when no one was around or just hold all the emotions

[Tr****]

Im Not Afraid to Cry it’s Healthy … But for me it Takes a Lot to have me Cry

[WA****]

My mom and dad brought me up in a way. It made me very emotional and for me to cry. Is nothing especially when it comes to something like a break up, actually of somebody on TV or a movie? That's how emotional I can get is stupid. I don't like it but it's me. It's who I am.

[Cu****]

For me it’s contextual, if it’s because I’m sad then yeah but I’d do it privately/ around loved ones. If it’s because I’m physically breaking from excitement and tease then it’s embarrassing but that’s part of the point of the play.

[ma****]

Everyone cries, it's an emotional state just like laughing.

[Al****]

Let it out, bottling up emotions is a dangerous thing.

[La****]

No, tears fall for a reason, and they are a strength not a weakness.

[BadJokesNRopes]

Yup. I also have a hard time talking when i do. I see others say it depends on the cause but not for me. Any crying makes me feel bad. I've never cried tears of joy and feel weak when i cry tears of sorrow. Now i just bottle it up say im fine and keep marching.

[Ja****]

I have to cry or the monster may come out. Sometimes daily sometimes weekly. But for me it has to happen.

[Je****]

Nothing wrong with crying if you need to it helps relieve the pressure sometimes

[Ja****]

No, we're all humans
With the same feelings
I see no reason to be embarassed to cry

For me, youre more of a man to cry, and show vulnerability in front of others
Than to bottle it up, and hide it

[ke****]

I agree, we are all human beings, most people I know have feelings, thank god I’ve never ran into anyone that didn’t! That would be a dangerous human! I cry at times when I’m sad!

[4f****]

Rarely as I realize it is a trauma response directly related to hormonal swings. It does leave me very *** yet it's an extremely cathartic experience. Yesterday the crying jag hit me hard. Happy to reconnect My spouse offered me their chest to nuzzle. This siren song or something overcame me and instead I buried my face into the headiness of their armpit. Fricking 20+ years with them and I'd never stepped onto that pheromonal third rail. They always had an intoxicating scent below their waist but this drove me higher smh

[Deleted Member]

On 12/25/2023 at 12:02 PM, Flissinchargehere said:

Does it embarrass you to cry?

Why should it? My ass gets sad I cry simply a human response 

[mh****]

Not embarrass but I don't like to do it

[Lu****]

Embarrassed? No, have to let that sh*t out sometimes, nothing wrong with that.

[Dr****]

My mom is dying of brain cancer hours days at best. And I have been crying on and off for a week! And not embarrassed I'm A tuff motherf**ker but a mamas boy!