Bo**** Posted January 24 Posted January 24 40 minutes ago, little-rock662006 said: I love to be woken up this way…..my ex refused 😒 That boy be a damm fool can't think of a better breakfast.
ho**** Posted January 25 Posted January 25 Some of the berthing spaces on Navy ships are pitch black when the lights are out. A guy I worked with, we found out later, would sneak around at night and find a bottom bunk somewhere and start feeling his way under the covers to see how far he could go. Apparently, on numerous occasions he would go all the way, so far, to even getting them off. His luck ran out when a sailor angrily awoke and caught him, after chasing him through the passageway. Of course, the man was court marshaled and discharged from the Navy. I spoke with him before he left the ship and he admitted he’d been molesting guys that way for over a year to dozens of unidentified sailors. He said many of his victims would wake up at some point and let him continue to have his way with them, or when one would push him away he stopped immediately and bolted. Either way, the men were to sleepy to realize what was happening at first and too embarrassed to afterwards report it. The Navy has a saying, “It’s not gay when you’re underway.”
xM**** Posted January 25 Posted January 25 I once had a really great dynamic that involved this. What set it apart was that we would use each other’s phones to take little videos of ourselves playing with the other in some way. I had a few hot ones, like one of her masturbating and fondling my cock and balls while I snored lol. And one where she was playing with herself before fingering my open mouth. Her favourite ones were when I came in her mouth or on her face, but she also really liked watching me jerk myself off with her hand lol
My**** Posted February 8 Posted February 8 Most of the submissives I’ve been with desire sleep sex and they will beg for it, imagine being off in dreamland, then all of a sudden you wake up to an orgasm. Seconds after waking up, your cumming hard. Your body shaking, wondering what’s happening, forgetting that you wanted this. Before she falls back to sleep you in her ear “this is going to happen more than once… enjoy your sleep” I fall asleep while she lays there biting her lip, exciting and a little scared, she wants to close her eyes, but is too excited for her next orgasm.
Deleted Member Posted February 8 Author Posted February 8 definitely a fetish of mine, thanks for bringing it up. I've always felt like a perv for having that fantasy!
YorkshireBiker Posted February 8 Posted February 8 In theory, I have consent to try this but practically, it won’t work. My partner is a light sleeper and if I accidentally touch her while she’s asleep, the outcome is often her jolting awake with a genuine horror movie level scream (no exaggeration at all) followed by confusion and ***. I don’t think that would work.
J_**** Posted February 8 Posted February 8 19 minutes ago, YorkshireBiker said: In theory, I have consent to try this but practically, it won’t work. My partner is a light sleeper and if I accidentally touch her while she’s asleep, the outcome is often her jolting awake with a genuine horror movie level scream (no exaggeration at all) followed by confusion and ***. I don’t think that would work. Sounds like a great set up. Put your hand over her mouth and use that consent card
YorkshireBiker Posted February 15 Posted February 15 We’re both quite new to this and finding our feet so to speak. I’m certainly not at a level yet where I could cover her mouth and get stuck in, but never say never.
Bo**** Posted February 15 Posted February 15 28 minutes ago, YorkshireBiker said: We’re both quite new to this and finding our feet so to speak. I’m certainly not at a level yet where I could cover her mouth and get stuck in, but never say never. You don't have to go in hard and heavy you can ease into it from just cuddling as she's waking up and playing with her nipples or reaching down for a feel when she's still sleepy to help her get used to your presence, first time I tried it when she was out cold I got a black eye from the shock at waking up with a screaming orgasm! Even in hindsight id still say it was worth it she was uncontrollably horny all day and even let out a moan when I reached across her in the kitchen to grab the coffee! 😂 Permission and consent aside unexpected touch can quite often illicit a reflex response, try not to take it personally easing into it and repeated exposure will lessen the 'shock factor' so start when she's already stirring and semi-conscious a dirty whisper in her ear and a soft touch or hold when she's waking can help get her used to the feeling of waking to it. I knew I got my old partner hooked when I woke up to her using my hand to masturbate with while I was asleep the look on her face once she realised, I'd woken up was priceless. I wish you all the luck in the world in your pursuit of some morning glory while it's something she might have been happy to try it might just not be for her or may work better for you reversed? with us it became whoever woke up first got to pick how the other woke up!
MissTakenDeep Posted February 16 Posted February 16 I don’t think this is weird at all, I think it’s a pretty common kink tbf.
YorkshireBiker Posted February 16 Posted February 16 18 hours ago, Bothofme said: You don't have to go in hard and heavy you can ease into it from just cuddling as she's waking up and playing with her nipples or reaching down for a feel when she's still sleepy to help her get used to your presence, first time I tried it when she was out cold I got a black eye from the shock at waking up with a screaming orgasm! Food for though. Got me thinking of things I can try to start off small, then work up from.
Bo**** Posted February 17 Posted February 17 On 2/16/2024 at 7:41 AM, MissTakenDeep said: I don’t think this is weird at all, I think it’s a pretty common kink tbf. I like to think of it more like an affectionate good morning myself 😝
CheekiCheshire Posted February 18 Posted February 18 I love it when my partner (with previous discussion and consent) restrains me while I am sleeping and then slowly starts using me as his play toy. By the time I get awake I am totally captured (sometimes blindfolded and gagged) and sloppy wet, and often stuffed full. Sometimes he sees how aroused he can get my body before I wake up. Other times he is more focused on having me wake up mid-fuck and being totally disorientated and dominated. It takes a long time to build up enough trust for this type of play, but it is one of both of our favorite things.
Bo**** Posted February 18 Posted February 18 1 hour ago, NabiNexus said: You may want to research “somnophilia” 💗 ? if I'm correct Somnophilia would be not wanting to wake or get a reaction from the person as a form of paraphilia and dependent as to how it appeals is kind of a split between ***c impulses (from the unresponsive end of the scale) to Kleptophiliac impulses (based on the stealth aspect and effectively 'steeling' an orgasm without getting caught). while I can see the initial approach and can certainly agree that some people just look so God Damm sexy it's unreal when sleeping, personally it's the reaction that gets me off and also the purity of that reaction sometimes shock, sometimes loud sensual moaning orgasms, occasionally grabbing my head and wrapping her leg round the back of my neck pulling me in deeper. for myself it stems from a Placiosexual desire that gives me a hedonistic response. lots of big words for 5am but then I'm currently heading for towards 70 hrs without sleep so my grip on reality is starting to loosen.
Na**** Posted February 18 Posted February 18 7 minutes ago, Bothofme said: ? if I'm correct Somnophilia would be not wanting to wake or get a reaction from the person as a form of paraphilia and dependent as to how it appeals is kind of a split between ***c impulses (from the unresponsive end of the scale) to Kleptophiliac impulses (based on the stealth aspect and effectively 'steeling' an orgasm without getting caught). while I can see the initial approach and can certainly agree that some people just look so God Damm sexy it's unreal when sleeping, personally it's the reaction that gets me off and also the purity of that reaction sometimes shock, sometimes loud sensual moaning orgasms, occasionally grabbing my head and wrapping her leg round the back of my neck pulling me in deeper. for myself it stems from a Placiosexual desire that gives me a hedonistic response. lots of big words for 5am but then I'm currently heading for towards 70 hrs without sleep so my grip on reality is starting to loosen. That is correct. Usually when people have kinks or fetishes around sex & sleep, I lead them to the rabbit hole with somnophilia, as it tends to have a spectrum that slides back and forth with the most extreme being being aroused by the ***ness of the “victim” or bottom. Personally, I enjoy the full spectrum, as a soft sleeper though, I have to pretend to not be awake. But as a top, I definitely spend a lot of time admiring the body/person in a state of sleep. That alone is arousing for some reason. ((Maybe due to my battle with insomnia. Who knows.)) Never a bad time for big words lol - slipping realities happen to the best of us
BlondeB Posted April 1 Posted April 1 On 1/23/2024 at 5:33 PM, AegeanGorgon said: I had a partner once when we slept on the same bed we would inevitably wake up to us fucking. It was a perfect example of the innate instinct we all succumb to. A perfect example of humanity- to fuck ❤️❤️ Love this
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