Fe**** Posted October 4, 2019 Posted October 4, 2019 Has anyone ever gotten married or maybe just committed to someone, then develop or really get into a fetish that maybe your current partner isn’t into or doesn’t participate to its fullest potential and thought about how an EX would have been great for it? I love my wife, and she try’s hard and does her best with my fetishes, but I find myself thinking often about how great my EX would have been carrying out my kinky desires with. My ex would have loved to pound me with a strap on, she even said so once, but I wasn’t into then. I also think she would have loved cuckolding me in real life. I just look back and think of the misses opportunities. Am I the only one?
ey**** Posted October 4, 2019 Posted October 4, 2019 there's a saying which is basically - don't spend too long looking backwards, you're not going that way. ultimately, exes are exes for a reason and while you might have been able to have a bit more fun... if anything it might becomes soured when the relationship ended. mind... there is still a clip idea I want to film with my ex-wife haha
Deleted Member Posted October 6, 2019 Posted October 6, 2019 And think back there’s a reason she’s your ex
Deleted Member Posted October 6, 2019 Posted October 6, 2019 Funny, isn’t it? We almost never end up with the one that we could possibly have had the most fun times with (in the bedroom), but we end up with the person that we can live with (in and out of the bedroom). Eigh*** years ago, I had an absolutely amazing 16 months with someone with whom I had experiences that had never happened before and have never happened since. We are talking out-of-body experiences here! When the mood is right, the setting is perfect and you have an intense emotional connection with that partner, it can lead to the most incredible experiences. Unfortunately I couldn’t live with that person due to a number of circumstances at the time, but I often wonder “what if...” things had been different and we had still been together. This person was my soul mate, for sure. And I still have a little moment every single day when that person crosses my mind, even though I haven’t seen them for eigh*** years... Still, life goes on and I’ve since had other awesome experiences that would not have happened had I still been in that relationship. So, swings and roundabouts, eh?
ey**** Posted October 7, 2019 Posted October 7, 2019 earlier this year I had a relationship come to an end. As part of that there was an offer she made which would have allowed us to somewhat continue, but I turned it down (it was a bit putting-me-on-the-spot and it's too complex to explain for the sake of the post) Since then, there's been things she's done that I wasn't going to be part of - and things she's done that she hadn't planned at the time - and sometimes I wonder how our relationship would have gone if I'd said 'yes'. It might have just delayed the inevitable, might have unlocked a few more good times, or might have put us on a track. - On the other hand, there's so much I've done since then that wouldn't have happened - be it playing with some lovely subs (this was something not permitted as part of my relationship) meeting/filming with some people who I'd wanted to for a long time, which might not have happened - and certainly some of the things I've got lined up in the next week or so just wouldn't have been possible. So, the question of which path would I rather have had is so complex, and I've no idea - given I wouldn't have known what I'd missed if I'd not have done it - and assuming things would have worked another way - well, they might or might not. - I think the ultimate thing to remember is everything we ever did takes us to where we are today - and where we are today is something we can use as a springboard for the future.
Wo**** Posted October 7, 2019 Posted October 7, 2019 Time by Ben's Brother. A second, a minute, an hour, a day and its gone Little by little it fritters away try as you may you can never replace it A moment of beauty you stumble upon As long as you treasure whatever it is, whatever it is could never be wasted So if we all turn to dust Better to've loved and lost Cos everything has a cost So if you're gonna spend time Spend it upon me Spend it up on me Just give me your time I don't want your *** I'd crawl then I'd walk then I'd run but then I'd stumble and fall Somewhere between the love and the lust I tried my best I was maladjusted And I'm not saying that I know it all Maybe I'm a little more self-aware Still get scared but I've learned to trust it So when it comes to us I've weighed up all the odds I bet that this is love So if you're gonna spend time Spend it upon me Spend it up on me Just give me your time Don't take it from me I know hard it is Getting it right At a time like this So you'd better believe Believe How right it could be So if you're gonna spend time Spend it upon me Spend it up on me Just give me your time I don't want your ***
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