Chastity Question

[Deleted Member]

Recently have become more and more curious about chastity. Im keen to try it but have no partner or domme. Does anyone have any ecperience with Keyholders? Or recommend where (other than a fetish club) i may be able to meet a potential domme?

Tia

[ey****]

firstly - chastity is something that, ultimately, you don't need a Dominant for. You don't even need a device.  You simply abstain from masturbation.   

Of course, this doesn't quite seem to be as fun - so the question then becomes what, ultimately, do you want from the chastity experience.

So, the concept of someone basically having a key to your lock, pretty much choosing if and when you are allowed release can seem quite exciting.   But, for the other person it's a lot of emotional labour.

It's not difficult to find a keyholder but this is something that, traditionally, costs.  It's fairly easy to arrange - you can research assorted Pro-Dommes or sex workers who offer it and see who you think you'd like to have that power and how else this arrangement would work.  

Of course, like a lot of things - someone you pay very little to isn't likely to do much interacting with you versus someone who might ask a little more and this is something of course that can be quite expensive.  But, of course, it's a good way to be able to try - if after a week or two it just doesn't work out, you can end the arrangement, nobodies time is wasted and of course they are compensated for their time.

But, otherwise - for someone you wish to meet in person - it's always easier to go where people are.... 

[Deleted Member]

I am certainly after a more indepth experience and as you say if paying for it, it can be expensive. I cant really fault your logic about the best place to go is where the people are 

[LSBwhippingboy]

lots of Dommes on twitter, some just specialise as keyholders, for a price of course,