Hermetic Posted April 12 Posted April 12 Real life has a nasty way of tieing us down. Are you geographically in your happy place? Or is there someplace you think would be better?
Deleted Member Posted April 13 Posted April 13 I’m not geographically in my happy place. I’d go back to Montana. I have decisions to make soon.
St**** Posted April 13 Posted April 13 I’d love to live in San Francisco! It is such an amazing city!
sardonicus87 Posted April 13 Posted April 13 Given where I'm stuck living, there's a lot of places that would be better in many ways. But these same places would also be worse in other ways given what my situation would be without any of the aforementioned entanglements. There's literally no place I can think of that would be overall better, because I'd be in the same boat anywhere else—either I'd have to be a completely different person, or the majority of society would have to be different. As it stands, I got extremely lucky in my situation to have met anyone at all and be given a chance. Related specifically to kink though, there's nowhere that won't be any more than marginally better for me just on that front.
Th**** Posted April 13 Posted April 13 Cost of living is an enormous factor here too, if we're having a realistic discussion .
Deleted Member Posted April 14 Posted April 14 I used to live in London but l hated it. So in 1997 l escaped to a beautifully gorgeous village in north Wales in the stunning Snowdonia National Park. I’ve lived in the same home here since l moved. I don’t want to live anywhere else. The thought of living in a city again fills with dread. There is no crime where l live. So there’s no way it’s go back to city living. When my mother died in 2020 my last connection to London was gone and l don’t miss it at all.
Deleted Member Posted April 15 Posted April 15 I live near the sea on the South Coast. Wouldn’t want to live in a city having to visit cities are bad enough though work.
Wi**** Posted April 16 Posted April 16 A new physical location, in most average cases means the weather and plants growing around you are different but the problems are the same.
BigFatWhiteGuy Posted April 16 Posted April 16 I hate to say it, I feel like an asshole for thinking it... but I would rather live in a fairly "working class" suburb of Bucharest. There's a woman there... I don't think my wife would appreciate it. As for a city in the USA, I've lived in 3 different states and visited many others. I think I'm in a decent place.
Mr**** Posted April 16 Posted April 16 Comparatively reasonable cost of living and climate-related issues (so far) are minimal compared to other places. I've lived on the west coast and New England previously, both have their ups and downs. If it hadn't gotten so unbearably hot in the past few years I'd consider moving to the southwest though. I think the dessert is really beautiful.
BigFatWhiteGuy Posted April 16 Posted April 16 One gets used to 116F summers pretty quickly, and the winters in Phoenix are the most beautiful I've ever seen. Christmas is a BBQ holiday here.
Th**** Posted April 16 Posted April 16 On 4/15/2024 at 6:22 AM, zAlex said: I live near the sea on the South Coast. Wouldn’t want to live in a city having to visit cities are bad enough though work. South coast of what country? This is an international site.
RainbowTea Posted May 5 Posted May 5 I think I am, but then I wonder if I'm just biased because where I live now is the same place I've always lived (Canadian mid-west or central depending on how some interpret central)? I have several reasons for why I think my city is a good solid location to spend one's life but I'll spare everyone the boring details. But I absolutely *love* travelling so... I'd just want the freedom to pack up and go whenever the urge to travel hits and wherever my interests take me. 🤷🏻♀️
Je**** Posted July 17 Posted July 17 Honestly my ideal location would be wherever my future life partner wants to be. I’m not really tied down and have moved for love more than once
Pr**** Posted July 24 Posted July 24 I have no work entanglements, unfortunately and am estranged from fam.. so I fit that mythical category: I'm jacked up just outside Murfreesboro, TN. I hate it here, for nearly 20 years I've had none but my dogs to converse with (talk to), I have no friends, all the neighbors hate my guts (long story, I am innocent) and I'm stuck in this shit-hole backwater, truck stop of a town. There have been many bitter tears shed after leaving my home in Florida. Grow where thou art planted, else ye be trapped as am I - in a hellish existence of my own making.
goon2yu Posted August 5 Posted August 5 Lived in many places but the only place I'd rather live than Texas is Sao Paulo Brazil. Generally very happy people.
Th**** Posted August 17 Posted August 17 I’d be an on the road DOM, Traveling wherever a woman married/single desired to be treated correctly.
Sp**** Posted August 19 Posted August 19 April 16, Wizard6988 said: That said id live in a cabin in the woods by a lake any day I did, for about 5 years. With some breaks thrown in. First two years are good, you get things done. And than things can get interesting. Cabin fever is a thing and it can easily kill because when it hits you will do anything, in a feverish daze, to find civilization, to talk to someone. Remember when you're really horny, you can't think of anything else but to bust-a-nut? It's that intense, you NEED to and you will find your way away from the isolation in the next 2 hours after affliction. I'd do it again if i found a partner that can handle peacefulness for too long stretches of time.
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