Why is fellatio so enjoyable?

[Deleted Member]

I would like to apologise if I am about to come across as too blunt, or perhaps even rude. The problem is, I have asked "gently" so far, and I still do not have the answer I seek.

 

My question is this. Why is it that Submissives enjoy giving blowjobs so much? What makes it so physically enjoyable to have a man's penis in your mouth?

 

I have received many answers:

"I don't know, it's just fun."

"I just like it."

"I have orgasmed from doing nothing but giving head, with no stimulation of my own body. I don't know why though."

 

I am aware that, like sense of taste, or preference of music etc, many people just enjoy it "because".

 

So, ladies and gentlemen, I only want to hear answers that include physical, emotional/mental, perhaps even scientific reasons why you enjoy fellatio. What is it about having a penis in your mouth, that physically or mentally arouses you?

 

Not "because it pleases my Master and that pleases me", or anything like that. Physically, why do you perhaps "not mind" putting a shaft of stiff flesh in mouth? What is physically so pleasant about the experience?

 

 

... Venting complete. Apologies again. I am aware that that was a... Passionate ramble.

 

I hope that I will finally receive the answer I am looking for?

[Deleted Member]

I've always had the same question, my friend.

[SL****]

we like to see the enjoyment on our master/mistress face and actions thats why

[Deleted Member]

I guess it’s more of a mindset that a chemical reaction takes place which brings on those endorphins of arousal that pure thought of having a hard shaft or even soft one that your bringing to life Its literally like a switch being turned on as I’m writing this and just thinking about a hard / soft cock has got the clit thumping and the wetness going ,it’s the knowing as a sub that your actually in control of that time you are his centre of the universe and hold that power to literally blow his mind so yes all those things mentioned in your post about taste size smell wanting to please maybe a challenge on how far you can deep throat all adds up to desire and arousal and a chemical response within the brain

[Deleted Member]

4 hours ago, DanteReign said:

Not "because it pleases my Master and that pleases me", or anything like that.

 

57 minutes ago, SLDemon said:

we like to see the enjoyment on our master/mistress face and actions thats why

Thank you for your input, but as I mentioned, I have heard that answer many times. It is not the type of answer I seek. Thank you, though

[Deleted Member]

@Beau this is the kind of answer I was searching for. Thank you, very much indeed. Extremely insightful

[Deleted Member]

For me it's very pleasurable to give head , I'm quite orally fixated though and was a thumb sucker also. I find it's the most intimate of sexual acts . With my first daddy many years ago it was a way we both relaxed as well. I also cum if its a long BJ, and I put that down to pheromones or something . But I expect its a combination of many things

[BlueMonday]

For me it is about the intimacy.  I often get Daddy hard by sucking his cock.  Watching and feeling it grow is fascinating, it makes me feel powerful.  The skin is soft and smooth so tactilely it is a nice thing to touch and lick.  It is also often the start of playtime so, like Pavlovs dog, I become aroused knowing that more is coming.  Finally there is the fact that I often perform the service on my knees in front of Daddy and I enjoy the submissive position.

[Deleted Member]

I’m afraid for me it is about giving pleasure and as I think I’m good at it ... it makes me feel very sexy. I take great pride in my skills watching learning what makes this penis enjoy this experience. My lips around a hard shaft my tongue firmly tracing and flicking mmmmmm just thinking about it turns me on . As someone below like sucking their thumb I do like sucking lollipops perhaps there is a theme 🤔

[Deleted Member]

It’s to give pleasure to the man you want to make happy. I love blowing my boyfriend. He often tells me “not right now babe” because he’s driving or whatever.. I like making him feel good and love when he orgasms in my mouth. I know that I made him feel good and hot and bothered. I mean, why do some men LOVE to eat pussy?

[Deleted Member]

I tried to express a view on this topic in my story. Hope it's ok to repost. Not sure if the link will work here but it's in the fetish and kink forum. https://www.fetish.com/topic/6318-the-diary-of-a-cock-warmer-oral-submissive/

[CurrentFuckBuddy]

I think I can help clarify this a bit for you, lol. But I can only speak for myself, as I am not an expert. Just really, very good! The feel of a man's penis in my hand, before I've ever put it in my mouth, to me , feels velvetty soft. I'm turned on by his reaction and the sounds he makes, especially when I've hit a particularly sweet spot. In contrast, once I've taken him down the back of my throat a few times, I start producing gobs and gobs of this slimy, thick, very slick, spit. And it's almost a personal goal of mine to see how much I can get, and how wet were gonna get from it. There's so much spit sliding over his balls, pooling in his pelvis area, and running down the crack of his ass, that area start to smell like me, him, his ass, my spot, sexy fun, and no regrets! LMAO But seriously, it's not one thing for me, it's the variety of sights, sounds, smell, texture, hard, soft, and everyone of em super sexually charged! When it's on, it's electric, and it's definitely more than just "pleasing my Master", but that is certainly a huge bonus as well!

[Deleted Member]

1 hour ago, CurrentFuckBuddy said:

I think I can help clarify this a bit for you, lol. But I can only speak for myself, as I am not an expert. Just really, very good! The feel of a man's penis in my hand, before I've ever put it in my mouth, to me , feels velvetty soft. I'm turned on by his reaction and the sounds he makes, especially when I've hit a particularly sweet spot. In contrast, once I've taken him down the back of my throat a few times, I start producing gobs and gobs of this slimy, thick, very slick, spit. And it's almost a personal goal of mine to see how much I can get, and how wet were gonna get from it. There's so much spit sliding over his balls, pooling in his pelvis area, and running down the crack of his ass, that area start to smell like me, him, his ass, my spot, sexy fun, and no regrets! LMAO But seriously, it's not one thing for me, it's the variety of sights, sounds, smell, texture, hard, soft, and everyone of em super sexually charged! When it's on, it's electric, and it's definitely more than just "pleasing my Master", but that is certainly a huge bonus as well!

This is the kind of answer I seek. Thank you

[Vandalslut]

On 11/4/2019 at 1:37 AM, DanteReign said:

My question is this. Why is it that Submissives enjoy giving blowjobs so much? What makes it so physically enjoyable to have a man's penis in your mouth?

 

On 11/4/2019 at 1:37 AM, DanteReign said:

So, ladies and gentlemen, I only want to hear answers that include physical, emotional/mental, perhaps even scientific reasons why you enjoy fellatio. What is it about having a penis in your mouth, that physically or mentally arouses you?

 

On 11/4/2019 at 3:55 AM, SidoraxVonCreep said:

I've always had the same question, my friend.

Hi, Dante and Sidorax:  to begin at the beginning... For me as a submissive, just to kneel in front of my Vandal Lord is arousing for me. It's the one time the  Submissive actually has his/her Lord/Dom in a position of having to trust since he's trusting them with a  very precious piece of kit - not to bite down or do damage. To me the penis is a weapon, a mighty weapon.  It can be the spear that kills or the spear that gets you a hunter's dinner. Like all weapons, it definitely benefits from cossetting and care - again, this is the task of the submissive.  Hope that's helpful...I haven't had my first coffee yet so I may come up with something else later    Until then, dudes, have a better one.

[Prince_Coco]

On 11/4/2019 at 3:55 AM, SidoraxVonCreep said:

I've always had the same question, my friend.

As a woman I’ve never been able to go down on a man. It’s great to hear a guy actually say they don’t like it either 

[Snowflake-5239]

**My personal opinion**

I have most of the same reasons as everyone else except one difference. (Btw idk what I am yet. Learning)

Not sure how to explain it, I don't mind being told what to do. Still learning but in my head as soon as I start a blow job something switches. My brain tells me YOU are now the sub to ME. You are not the boss anymore. You're very *** now, entrusting me with such an important part of you. 

Because teeth can be scary...and at any moment your penis could be GONE or severely damaged if the person wanted it to be...(my childish random thoughts I guess that go through my brain)

So, I then decide I will make it a good experience.

The ACTUAL act of the blow job is not great. I get tired and it hurts my mouth after awhile (I've attempted to learn how to do this quickly lol). It gets boring sometimes and cum tastes gross so you have to have a "chaser" nearby always! ( notice the Water bottles always near by?...)

BUT At the end of the day YOU being at the mercy of ME instead of me to YOU  for however many minutes it takes for you to cum gives me a rush so I will keep doing it.

[Vandalslut]

39 minutes ago, Snowflake said:

My brain tells me YOU are now the sub to ME. You are not the boss anymore. You're very *** now, entrusting me with such an important part of you. 

Because teeth can be scary...and at any moment your penis could be GONE or severely damaged if the person wanted it to be...(my childish random thoughts I guess that go through my brain)

So, I then decide I will make it a good experience.

Totally