Staring

[CptDetroit]

Is this a new thing, or am I just now noticing…

My last long-term lg/sub & gf used to turn around and stare at me and smile, happy that she had a caring Daddy. That was new at the time.

Now 2 submissives later, I’ve taken note that they too did/do the same thing, and do so most often while stroking/scratching my beard.

Submissives, is this something that younger subs do or is it common and I’m only now noticing?

[my****]

Clearly you’re doing it right. Make sure the smile makes it to her eyes. If it’s there, it’s probably real.

[Ca****]

I don’t think it’s necessarily a younger or older thing. It’s an admiration of their dom, taking “you” and/ or the moment in. 😌 don’t interrupt the moment.

[ki****]

Maybe you are becoming a better Dom and partner, worthy of such smiles.

[Th****]

This isn't a man/woman, Dom/sub, or even kink/vanilla thing.

It's relatively common for people who are super into someone in whatever way to look at/watch them with admiration because they simply really really like them and/or love them. 

My guess is you're just noticing it. 

Edited May 29, 2024 by ThaliaV

[ma****]

That's very common with those who truly admire their partner. It can be a submissive doing it or a Dom or a vanilla person.

[CptDetroit]

I HAVE noticed it before in vanilla relationships. Often. It’s just new for me in D/s DD/lg dynamics.

Maybe I’ve learned to open up and share more with subs than I did previously.

[Th****]

49 minutes ago, CptDetroit said:

I HAVE noticed it before in vanilla relationships. Often. It’s just new for me in D/s DD/lg dynamics.

Maybe I’ve learned to open up and share more with subs than I did previously.

That very well could be the case then 

[Deleted Member]

I can’t speak for all girls, but for me I like doing that too and I’m not young. I love laying on a man’s chest an looking up watching him watch tv an breathe. I like watching a man chew guy. I’m a watcher voyeurism is my kink.  Also if I’m satisfied, super attracted, or in a playful mood. 

[Deleted Member]

It's not a new thing just not everyone does it.

It's a common one among people whose choice for expression of love is touch oriented as looking deeply into partners eyes then touching them in some way is there version of saying I love you without saying it verbally.

So if your partner is doing this take it as your doing things right and try to respond in your own 5 languages of loves appropriate way.

Edited June 13, 2024 by Deleted Member
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