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[Nostalgic17]

So long story. Me and my fiancé have been together 4 1/2 years and have a great relationship. We’re best friends. But we have always had trouble communicating about certain things. Sex being one of them. We’re both have not had many partners or sexual experiences other than with eachother. We’re both in our early 20s. So our sex has always been pretty vanilla with some name calling and hair pulling mostly quickies. We used a cock ring a few times. Nothing compared to what I’d like to do. I’ve always had secret fantasies and kinks I’d like to try but I was terrified he would not be into it or think it was weird. We really never tales about what we liked. I get embarrassed for some reason as does he. He’s mentioned a few things before like recording us. But for some reason the other night we were both a little fucked up and he had me on the counter in the bathroom and he looked me in my eyes and said that he has some fantasies about me. I kid you not when he said that my heart stopped. I felt like I had been waiting for years for those words to come out of his mouth. We kept talking about what we’d like to do during the rest of time we had sex. It was so hot and it like unlocked something between us that we were missing. Ever since then I have been so aroused by him every second of the day. My mind keeps coming up with everything I’d like him to do to me and vice versa. We discussed *** fantasy and that’s my deepest darkest fantasy and he’s totally down which I’m so excited for. But I’m also terrified because I’m a very self conscious person and I don’t want to embarrass myself. We wants to do tons of different role play. He’s really into dom/sub which is fucking amazing because that’s one of my favorites. Although we’ve both never actually done any of these things with anyone just in our head or porn. 
 

im definitely rambling but I just need a few tips on first time. He said he really wants to do casting/director Type of thing. Like I have to audition for his porno.

which is so hot but I know that takes some time for me because I’m already very nervous and adding a camera and a lot of acting will make me so nervous for the first time doing anything like this. I think I’d like to start slow and do some bdsm type stuff. We already have so many things we want to try but I want to take our time and start from the beginning. We ordered a few things. Handcuffs blindfold, gag, dildo and a fee

others. I want him to do whatever he wants to me but I just don’t know where to start and I’m not sure if he is either! I know it takes practice but I’m so eager to learn and experience this with him! 

[Wo****]

Discuss limits and safe words, relax, enjoy it and have fun....

You're starting an incredible journey together, embrace it. Communicate, check in with each other and start exploring.

[BigPolly]

Once you’ve done exactly what @LazyPiratesBounty says, then book a hotel room that way you’re both in a strange place to be who you want to be or go to a fetclub together, talk to people & play with their equipment

[rossco-4359]

Communicate be patient & most importantly relax & dont be afraid to say exactly what you like & want & encourage him to be as open as possible as well

[Deleted Member]

Even though it took time, it's good you two have opened up - I know exactly how it feels to feel that way about a fetish or fantasy but once you open up it becomes easier to talk about and more exciting. Don't pressure yourself or your partner and just try one scenario at a time - plus if you're nervous during you 'audition' tape, that makes it feel that more realistic 😁

[Mercedes676]

Would you be both up for joining me and my husband I share the same fantasy’s with you to it took me years to Tell my husband to what I really wanted and now our sex life is great we visited our first dungeon last December have pics we can share and now I would like to Go to the next step of introducing more people it’s one of my biggest fantasy’s xxx

[Mercedes676]

We also have some bsm toys and props we always love expanding to our collection and would love to hear more about your fantasy’s XX