Cl**** Posted July 17 Posted July 17 How do you like to get into the headspace for your main kink, or role?
ba**** Posted July 18 Posted July 18 didn’t know i was ever not in a headspace , so you need time to get there ?
Si**** Posted July 18 Posted July 18 So it sucks that i feel like i gotta defend OP from any sort of “youre not a real sub/dom/whatever if you need to get into the right mindspace for kink” itbh i think it can be necessary if youre a parent with young *** at home or if you work in certain fields that require emotional compartmentalization and a huge boundary between work and home life.
Si**** Posted July 18 Posted July 18 3 minutes ago, SitOnMyFacePlz916 said: So it sucks that i feel like i gotta defend OP from any sort of “youre not a real sub/dom/whatever if you need to get into the right mindspace for kink” itbh i think it can be necessary if youre a parent with young *** at home or if you work in certain fields that require emotional compartmentalization and a huge boundary between work and home life. didnt finish lol, but i just wanna say that just taking some time to yourself to relax; maybe watching porn/reading erotica is where id go first, or smokin some bud. i personally enjoy giving massages and performing acts of service too as a sub, but idk
ri**** Posted July 18 Posted July 18 It depends on the scene, if it’s rigging, I just enjoy doing it and it’s fun so I don’t need to get into a certain headspace. But if it’s a “heavier” scene, I think about what I want to do, take a couple of breaths and basically just flick the switch if that makes sense
Cl**** Posted July 21 Author Posted July 21 Background. I have been apart of some intense scenes like knife play, and I know how I do things personally. I'm just curious about others for other kinks because I personally identify as a pleasure Dom so knowing can help me in future situations I may find myself in
Cl**** Posted July 21 Author Posted July 21 Thursday at 02:56 AM, babyflaminga said: didn’t know i was ever not in a headspace , so you need time to get there ? Some scenes it would be advisable like knife play, primal prey(depending on how intense) and so on. It's not looked well when you hint at a threat of bodily harm or chance people in a not so kind manner lol
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