Help lol

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New to this, but would love to meet a young woman and learn together a sub/dom relationship ( long term goals)

I struggle to find a woman to keep up with me, I love a woman in seams, I love to play and experiment with a partner. Think maybe my image ( biker) may put people off, id love to hear opinions on this. Is there anywhere to go in Nottingham where I could meet like minded people without feeling arkward, cheers all.

[ey****]

if you google a find a munch that'll give you a good directory of munches and you can look up towns/cities that are good travel distance.

Ironically there are TWO munches tonight - but after that the next one is Friday at The Salutation and then that seems to be about it until the new year

whether you feel awkward or not... well... I can't fix that.  Just that ultimately everyone is also interested in *socialising* - but remember it's a social event, but that's something that might help boost confidence and make some new friends.

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Generally, I advise against two people whom are inexperienced learning together - it especially seems fruitless when there's a wealth of knowledge online and on your doorstep which minimises the risk from trial and error.  

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Cheers, I go to the sal regularly now anyway.

[Deleted Member]

Could you explain munch/ munchies not heard that term before, might very well pop over sal on fri, if your there come say hi, ive not really made friends over here yet as new to Nottingham. Cheers

[ey****]

I shan't be there as I'm a totally different part of the country - but I found the event via the find a munch.

Basically, munches are social gatherings - which can be for kinky friends to chat outside of a kink setting, or of course as a way for newcomers to be introduced to what is happening in their local area.

 

[CheekiCheshire]

Munch is a gathering of friends...who happen to be kinky. Good place to start out finding your local community. I also agree that while learning together sounds like a good idea, in practice it is actually a lot more work than learning from someone who is more experienced than you are. Think about you and another person trying to teach each other how to swim, without knowing what you are doing. Yeah, you may get lucky and not drown, but it is far from the best way to go about things.

[Ava-3014]

Hello

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2 hours ago, eyemblacksheep said:

I shan't be there as I'm a totally different part of the country - but I found the event via the find a munch.

Basically, munches are social gatherings - which can be for kinky friends to chat outside of a kink setting, or of course as a way for newcomers to be introduced to what is happening in their local area.

 

Ok bud cheers, but as its a normal rock bar, how the hell do you know whose into it or not ?

[Vandalslut]

15 hours ago, HDlea said:

  Think maybe my image ( biker) may put people off, 

Wouldn't put me off, my Dom's a biker.  You'll do all right.  Good luck, mate.

[ey****]

8 hours ago, HDlea said:

Ok bud cheers, but as its a normal rock bar, how the hell do you know whose into it or not ?

some of this might mean more to you than to me.  But

You're looking for the larger of the rear 2 snugs.   There'll be a lot of reserved signs and rainbows - and apparently folk crochetting?  if in doubt, ask at the bar for Pebble.

Don't ask outside of that area about the munch - as many might not have a clue. 

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Cheers appreciated.