The bisexual polyamorous non-binary she/they femme you've been searching for. ?
Just a little girl looking for their Sadistic Daddy Dom.
I've been active in the bdsm community and lifestyle since 2014. You can find me on FL under the same username.
# Who am I?
I’m passionate, sociable (extroverted introvert) and incredibly bad at summarising myself in under 500 words. ESTJ-T (for those who like Meyers-Briggs). I get un-ironically excited about a lot of things – dogs, Marvel/DC, Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, dogs, pole dancing, drag culture, more dogs… did I mention I like dogs?
I’m definitely opinionated and principled – I’m a feminist, an atheist, left wing/liberal socialist, and a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community. I tick a few more boxes in the diversity and intersectionality panel because I’m also mixed race and Autistic + ADHD! #suchfun #sodiverse #wow
I’m not without my privilege though; despite being mixed race I somewhat pass as white, despite being Queer I can pass as cis and straight, and even though my Autism and ADHD can wreck some havoc on life (especially with bonus anxiety and depression moments), I'm quite good at masking which means I can appear okay for the most part. Plus I'm privileged to have amazing friends and family who support me and help me when I have anxiety attacks or depressive episodes. (So please don't mind me if I have to temporarily withdraw from a social situation, sometimes I just need to have some space.)
# What about the kinky stuff?
I’m a bit of a mish-mash of a lot of different traits under the general “submissive umbrella” but the main ones that stand out and I identify as the most are:
- A little/middle - I like to feel young and innocent, wear cute outfits, play with stuffies and colour. Plus I have a huge desire to be cuddled, protected and nurtured by someone big, warm and strong.
- A submissive - I am eager to please, I like serving, having protocol and structure, and being "forced" to do things I "totally don't want to do" (CNC is a big kink for me).
- A bratty princess/kitten - I'm playful, coy, pouty and love to sass and misbehave (especially if punishments are involved, and having a smart mouth means they often are). Plus I just love to be generally cute and adorable and (try to) get away with everything!
- A masochist – I loooooove pain, but here’s the kinda weird bit; my pain threshold is low, but my love for bruises and marks is high. Basically it means you will get a reaction out of me pretty early on, but you can probably beat me up for ages!
- An exhibitionist – In the last few years I’ve realised how much I love public scenes, being on display and secretly (but not so secretly) being the centre of attention or "performing" in a kink scene setting.
**Desires and Fantasies**
# What am I looking for?
Like I say in my opening line, I am looking for a Daddy, a Dom and a Sadist – ideally all in one body!
Some non-negotiables:
- Someone who’s dominant, not a sub or a switch ~ Cause I am really not a domme
- Someone who’s currently single or is looking for a primary ~ Cause I’m not a unicorn for couples and I'm not looking for a secondary partner right now
- Someone who’s between 1 to 10 years older than me ~ Cause I like to be the youngest but don't want too much of an age gap
- Someone who shares my values and morals ~ Cause I'm looking for something long term
- Someone who’s taller than me ~ I'm 5'6 and I really like to feel small
- Someone who loves cuddles ~ Cause I absolutely LOVE cuddles!
I'm always happy to make friends! As long as you're kind, respectful, and not an asshole. SWERFS and TERFS are not welcome. And if you're racist, sexist, homophobic, misogynistic, or ableist etc, then you too can kindly get the fuck out of here.