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I’ve been extremely fortunate to have met a number of women over this past year. Some have been one night stands, a few turned into multiple dates, and others had turned into something much more.

These experiences have shown me what I’m really looking for and I’m hoping to find someone who’s desire resonates in kind.

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First and foremost, I’m divorced and I’m a dad. Me and my kids are a package deal. I don’t have them full time, but I’m always DAD and I give them my attention and affection in abundance when they need me. They don’t need a mom, the one they have is kinda awesome. Just be a dope ass friend to them, they will appreciate it. If this is a dealbreaker, thanks for stopping by.

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Ok, with that out the way…

I am manifesting a relationship built on open communication, honesty, love, kindness, humility, passion, lust, and shared kinks.

I had someone who I wanted to build this with, unfortunately, things moved so quickly and I went about it the wrong way and things fell apart. Hoping to do it better this time around. I want us to take our time and build a bond where we KNOW we have found our safe space.

I love my life, my career, and social circle. I’m going to find someone who complements my life and I will do the same for her.

I’m not hard to please. Send me music, memes, food and nudes. Come to the gym with me. Let’s be that hot couple that everyone notices. Smell nice, I do. Give me your time, attention and affection. I’ll treat you like a QUEEN and will make sure you are seen, heard, understood, and respected.

As for our sexual compatibility, I’m envisioning a relationship that STARTS with us exploring, acclimating, and elevating our sensuality together, exclusively. Once we are both mutually ready, we would invite other couples, or an agreed upon third, and eventually, could lead to encouraged solo play. I don’t want you to be a whore, I want you to be MY whore. I would want you to experience the touch of others, knowing that YOU know YOU belong to ME and they are just an instrument WE use to bring you pleasure, just as YOU would want that for ME. We lust and share OURSELVES with others, but we only LOVE on each other…

I’m in no rush. I plan to be very selective as I want this to be a long term thing. I WON’T settle for someone unless she is patient, charismatic, sexy, open-minded, kinky, and submissive.

I hope this has caught your interest. I can’t wait to meet you.

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Me: Asian/Black, 5’11”, Fit, Tatted, Kinky.
I’m witty, charismatic, and kind.

You: 24-36, sexy, submissive, HWP.

I live alone in San Jose.

*I’m not actually looking for a wife. We don’t need a contract that ***s us to be together. I will CHOOSE you daily. Please reciprocate.