Free BDSM dates with kinksters near you

Heyo, I'm Chris! I'm new to the community and just starting to dip my toes into being part of it, but I've been wanting to give this stuff a shot for a few years. I'm 23-year-old California guy (Bay Area) with a plethora of odd skills, too many hobbies, a great sense of humor, an absurd range of interests (both kinky and mundane), and really just an all-around alright guy.

I wanna be shown the ropes. Explore things, experiment, have some fun and maybe share a few laughs— really just a chance to indulge in the kinkier side of life without getting degraded or beaten into submission. Lending a hand and serving as a dedicated servant. A simple evening of being bound, gagged, and used as a body pillow/cuddle toy while we indulge in something as mundane as watching a movie or show together. Drawn-out sessions in the dungeon— I'm willing to explore it all! We can pursue it as casually or intense as we want. I'm after the connection and fun, not sexual pursuits and chasing after thrills.

Looking for long-term, monogamous, and in-person. I'd prefer getting to know each other a bit first instead of get straight into it. Can't host.