Fingering

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For all fingering fans

Fingering is a common term for what is more properly called 'digital stimulation'. Neither phrase sounds particularly sexy, but for a lot of people the reality is red hot: many people with clitorises find that they can't easily reach climax without a little attention in this department.

The key to great fingering is better communication. Ask your partner what they want and what they enjoy; you could try asking them to use your hand as though they were doing it themselves to help you learn what it is that they like.

If you're on the other end of the equation and you aren't sure what to ask for, experiment! Masturbation is a natural, healthy way to get in better touch with your own body - and there's no better method of finding out what turns you on.

What is fingering?

Stimulating a person’s vulva, vagina and clit with just your fingers.

How do you finger someone well?

The best advice is to ask them what they like. Some people will like forceful thrusts inside the vagina, some might like their G-spot stroked, others will want gentle motions or lots of clit stimulation. So ask what they want and you can then do what they like.

Can you get pregnant from fingering?

There is a very, very slight chance but it is highly unlikely. If a guy has pre-cum or ejaculate on his fingers and directly places them inside the vagina there is a tiny possibility of pregnancy. To avoid this, be sure to wash your hands before fingering. It will also stop any possibility of infections too.

How do I combine fingering with my D/s dynamic?

Pleasing your dominant with nothing but your hands can be an interesting and fun challenge. Dominants can finger a submissive for a reward or to play with orgasm denial or control. It is a fun activity to try outside, in public or in front of a crowd (at a BDSM or swingers club for example). You can combine pleasure from digital stimulation with pain from biting or scratching too. There are lots of sexy ways to combine fingering and BDSM play.

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    Any of you subs fantasised being gropped/fingering by total stranger, either in the lift or during shopping, or crowded place? I would love to do it one day, I am talking consented act before the huma ...
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    Hi hi! My name is Laney. I'm a 19 year old girl looking for an older man (ideally 30–55) with a calm, steady presence who enjoys giving structured, comforting spankings in a gentle, authoritative way.
    I'm quite shy and soft-spoken, and it makes me a bit nervous, but I am looking for someone who can help guide me through exploring this as it's something I've wanted to do for a long time. I’m not looking for harsh punishment or sexual exchange. For me, this is about feeling safe, taken care of, and gently led. I’d like to meet with someone who knows how to be in control but not aggressively, rather someone who is confident and in control, as well as very kind and gentle. I want to feel guided through the experience: given instructions, corrected, lightly scolded, but also reassured and praised throughout. I’d like an OTK scene with clothing fully off, starting with your hand and building up to a paddle or hairbrush. I have a pretty low tolerance, so I’d want it to stay at a manageable level, but still a bit ful. A safe-word would definitely be important. Praise is something I respond to deeply, so I'd like to receive that throughout. I'd also be open to some sexual touch after a scene, but only very small, tame things like fingering, if there’s comfort and trust. But I want to be clear that I'm not looking for penetrative sex or reciprocal contact. Another thing- I’m not going to post photos of myself publicly because I really am nervous about privacy, but if we talk a bit and build some comfort, I’d be okay sharing pictures or short videos privately. I would like to meet somebody in person- ideally for a dinner or coffee or something beforehand to feel more comfortable, and then go to a hotel or other private space together for the scene. I won’t be in Bellingham over the summer, but I’d love to talk for a while and get to know you slowly, and hopefully meet up in the fall once I’m back at school. Thank you for reading! :)

    BDSM Play Partner30 to 55 years ● 10km around USA Bellingham

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