NSA BDSM contacts in Derby

Hi I'm looking for a mistress, I am looking for someone that will give me their precious time to allow me to prove that I am worth there effort.
I would like to find someone that I can please, make laugh, smile and relax because I am there to do the things they want.
I like to please and love to be told I have been a good boy, I want to follow the rules and tasks she sets but I know I can stray a little sometimes🫣 so someone that is inventive in ways to make me learn, I don't mind these tasks if they are of a sexual or just a mundane task, anything that makes her happy or means she has one less thing to do around the house.
I like a bit of but no , I have some in person experience of being a sub, I had been online for more than two years with one Dom starting with texts then on to cam, I then moved to in person with a different Dom due to the other being in a different country, we met a few times and I believe I was able to fulfill her needs. So used to love me cooking for her, she would play and *** me trying to make me make a mistake. Unfortunately, she is unable to continue due to personal reasons. So now I'm looking again.
I am only looking for in person meetings, preferably around east midlands of England, but I am willing to travel If we have a good connection, as I have said I do love to please the person I'm with in any way they wish including if they just need to release some frustration.
If this is something that interests you say hi so we can chat, see if we click, hopefully I will find my wonderful mistress and she her willing sub.
I will be open and honest from the start i do have a long-term partner of over 20 years and she understands and agrees to what I’m doing, I can explain a bit more when we chat.
Please note I'm not interested in people that will sell their service to me, I want a friend, someone when we are not playing, I can have a conversation with maybe take for a meal or go for drinks, I like to be that person that you trust and feel you can try and say almost anything with. If you have gotten to the end thank you for you time.