I was celibate for 7 years. That ended a year ago when I entered a vanilla relationship. That ended and I've been on a bit of self-discovery since the beginning of the year because I felt there's more that I need to explore and I realized I need aspects of kink to feel complete. I feel incredibly fortunate to have a Kink mentor who has been encouraging to explore and figure out what makes me tick. He knows I am looking for something more substantial and wants that for me. He also knows what a special human I am and thinks whoever I end up with will be very lucky. (He says it will be my kinky prince charming lol).
I am looking for someone is interested in a relationship. In a relationship, I am sensual and attentive, need stimulating conversation, and am about mutual respect and trust. I want someone who is a gentleman and treats me like that queen that I am. I hope to find my person who is in the lifestyle as I have realized it is important to me. I am also someone who has NEVER cheated on a partner. I am not interested in penpals, but in those who are serious about meeting in person. I don't look anywhere near my age (more like early 40s), I'm in the gym regularly for my physical and mental health. Currently, I'm a size 10 and I am natural everywhere... there are no fillers here! I'm a sapiosexual, so a mind connection is important to me. Communication is key.
Vanilla Interests include stimulating conversations, travel, fitness, music, dancing, the arts, movies, exploring different cuisines and cultures..... fun :-). GGG, Gentle Doms, Sensualists, Daddy Doms, Dom leaning switch, and (I will consider Subs who are Alpha outside of the bedroom). I'm in North NJ. I am interested in meeting people in North NJ, South Westchester County, Rockland County NY, and NYC.
*I hate that I have to add this to my profile*
Please don't think my purpose of being here is to provide you with pictures, videos for you to jerk off to, endless communication to get off to, etc. I am about IRL meeting. If you are looking to take communication off of this platform, be prepared to meet in person in the very near future and a video chat along with a picture that is YOU (This is about MY SAFETY). If your profile and about are barren and location is vague, please be prepared to write a very descriptive message as to why you are reaching out and your location or you probably won't receive a response from me. Friend requests without prior communication will also be ignored. Not being respectful and playing games will get you blocked :-)
You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile, information, pictures, or other material posted on this site or any of its associated sites in any form or forum (this also includes, but is not limited to, advertisements, studies, or projects of any kind). If you do so, I will consider it a violation of my privacy and will pursue legal action against you.
(I hate that I have to add this to my profile) Please don't think my purpose of being here is to provide you with pictures, videos for you to jerk off to, endless communication to get off to, etc. I am about IRL meeting. If you are looking to take communication off of this platform, be prepared to meet in person in the very near future and a video chat along with a picture that is YOU (This is about MY SAFETY). If your profile and about are barren and location is vague, please be prepared to write a very descriptive message as to why you are reaching out and your location or you probably won't receive a response from me. Friend requests without prior communication will also be ignored. Not being respectful and playing games will get you blocked :-)
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
93% Voyeur
93% Switch
85% Exhibitionist
82% Experimentalist
76% Rigger
72% Rope bunny
71% Submissive
68% Dominant
68% Non-monogamist
59% Vanilla
57% Brat
57% Brat tamer
44% Master/Mistress
27% Primal (Prey)
25% Daddy/Mommy
25% Slave
20% Degrader
20% Owner
17% Sadist
16% Masochist
15% Ageplayer
8% Primal (Hunter)
4% Pet
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl