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Im 36 years old and I am here to meet like minded people. I'm still new to this sort of stuff. I am curious. I just know under this vanilla armour I wear that's there's a butterfly wanting to break free. I just want more excitement. Feel free to send a message if you want to chat. I am nowhere near comfortable with calls or video chats. But I will exchange pics or videos. Only in my own time and if I know you and we have talked for a while. I know I am a switch. Being dominant is something I want to explore more of. Not that I have been dominant with anyone yet. I want to learn together. Feel free to drop a message. Anyone who wants me to be submissive can also drop me a message I'm happy to talk to anyone even if we just talk as friends. I'm also happy to make connections.


Limits are
No
No s
No ***
Nothing illegal.
But let's talk and find out more

Let's chat more and get to know each other

Myself (inferior pathetic slave) and Sir are seeking a casual play partner. I will never be in control but Sir would like to play with me and the other sub, who he will also ask to domme me and then reward them for being really mean. Please DM if you’re interested.

Hi there i am a 33 year old male who desires to be completely and utterly used by all the queens and doms out there who like to facesit and smother and remind slaves of their place, i like to wear leggings and spandex as punishment, tied up, and i would love to be made to pass out for the first time, i live in Leeds and would love to meet a local dom. Xx

I love girls with red hair I like to jerk off to sexy girls any girls who want that

Looking to have a lot of fun and explore each other(Women only) I need a dominant woman that like taking charge and being in control of me

I'm looking for a dirty lil sub, to build a dynamic and long term relationship with, the closer to me the better, but don't mind travelling a bit for the right fit.
If you wanna know more about me just ask or have a look at my fetlife for a more comprehensive list of like etc

Hit me up if you would like to meet or talk

Looking for a new sub. My new sub will be "baby diaper girl" and wear a diaper and onesie while with me if she is allowed to be clothed. She will be completely taken care of and not need to or be allowed to make any decisions or do anything without my say so. No water sports, no one is pissing on you, playing with any poop etc. Not into that, no branding no *** no marks bruises only safe play with safe word but with the baby diaper girl twist. I'm a formally trained Dom have been for 20 years. I enjoy teaching about the lifestyle as much as living it and really enjoy pushing subs to their limits so they can learn about themselves and come out as better stronger people. I'm a respectful Master but a non tolerant one. I don't like disobedience and it's not my choice but a fact that punishment follows disobedience. Will never cross the prearranged limits ever and always have safety at the top of my priority list before the fun comes into play. If you don't understand what the lifestyle is about and that sex is very low on the priority list in a Master/slave Dom/sub relationship then we're not a fit from the start. It's all about power control pushing limits exploring your wants desires likes you never new you had but having fun and getting close to someone you trust along the way. Don't get me wrong I love sex very much so as a matter of fact but thats not why I want a sub/slave if I wanted just sex there are much easier ways- buy a couple drinks at a local bar for a cutie impress her with my sense of humor then later with everything else 😁😁 just kidding. Baby Diaper Girl where are you? Your daddy needs to find you he is worried about you and is bored with no one to take care of.

Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No , no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

I'd like to be ask to wear lingery and be humiliate. A gay couple ask me if i'd like to experiment sex with men and suddenly *** me to be fuck and tell me to suck at the same time. They humiliate me and says that im a toy use for receiving sperm and that is the only utility that i'm good for. Fuckink me very vigourously and the boyfriend fuck me in the mouth. I like to say no please don't do that, don't cum in. I don't like those gay thing. Let me go

Hi,
I'm looking for someone who lives fairly local to me who'd like a n ideally long term BDSM relationship with a kind, reasonably good looking, slim, 62 year old Dom who's been on his own for far too long.

Do get in touch if you'd like to meet up :-)

I want to find someone interested in the DDLG lifestyle. Im a middle. I dont have alot of experience in it but would like to experience more. Want someone whos more experienced than i am and is close to where i live. At least within traveling distance. Can be something serious or short term depending on how it goes. Just want to figure out more into this side of bdsm

But like just friends who play together is cool too as long as you're super nice and to me and tell me how cute I am, and pet me and stuff. Penetrative sex not necessarily included in the just friends category.

I would like to get to know a Dom who wouldn’t be opposed to playing a sugar daddy role…

I am Lynn well educated articulate secretary type like to take her hair down at night thoughtful we'll seek your best interests will tell you when you're wrong back you when you're right I seek strong minds and hands to Lead Me I am a blonde I like all sorts of activities I'm a student of life your interests are my interests from hanging out doing nothing to hiking biking travel I'm interested in any and all things from Kitchen quickies to midnight marathons I like to be tied up and controlled in the midst of Passions like sexual asphxia mostly I like people who know what they want and are not afraid to go out and do it I don't suffer fools gladly or wises sadly. i also speak gibberish and nonsense! Hey another thing I'm actually looking for a human being male female male female female male male male female couple odd straight even even space aliens will do I have a personality type that fits into any culture I took some personality tests and guess what my type of personality is like two to four percent in this nation for hyper creativity and by age four my kind they say was planning to write books poetry in particular and that's what I have published are we hardwired or not anyway have you got a good heart a good soul good manners and a lot of action and adventure or not action and blase Ness and I'm your girl actually the doc say I'm an androgen which means I have a nearly perfect left and right brain hemispheric activity going on in my Noggin so I am my own male I am my own female and I have my own saying which is the best of both worlds Without The either so I'm kind of like solitary as an oyster is Charles Dickens would say in A Christmas Carol but I get lonely I crave intellectual stimuli and fun and brain dead isms and all sorts of stuff so you're interested in my interests I like to learn I'm an educator everybody has a love language right so my love language is to share information and fellowship and hanging out doing nothing making peanut butter cookies writing midnight dervish dribble and whatnot so let's sit on the floor Friday night spread a blanket watch an old black and white movie and snuggle and I like to be controlled I make a good Lieutenant too yes I am a bit ditzy I'm spaced out and blonde so lead the way if you got the gumption if you're a willy-nilly no good if you're an idiot I won't have nothing to do with you because those type of people are energy suckers there are vampires that suck *** they are energy vampires to suck all sorts of energy out of you things thoughts Goods power space whatever so beware come rescue me I'm Marooned in a hick town out in the middle of Western Nebraska population 900 and the people here are thick and dense I I grew up near Chicago so I'm used to culture or the Kung Fu coach for 40 years trying to be an English professor so I'm a very literal and creative if you hang out with me I'll tell you my name you can look at my books on Amazon they'll scare you I use them for litmus tests and tell people to go look at a book and they never write back see people are shallow they're afraid of differentiation they like generic stuff that is just plain Dumb-o. I also discovered that being shy was just a stupid waste of time for the shy one and they miss out on life so I speak my mind I'm the fastest dumbass in the West actually the slowest I'm kind of slow-witted but I'm like a bulldog once I understand I hang on anyway feel free to ask me anything you would like I do a lot of editing so your questions will not surprise me I will bet you they're pretty standard because our educational system trains people to be skulls of numb you take care folks watch your souls there are soul vampires out there that'll steal you away who you are and what you have

I'm seeking a woman who is experienced with or wants to try fisting, and I'm also looking for somebody with small hands of either gender who would like to try to fist my ass. Maybe both!

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There are two things I am here for. One is for my own fun and learning, I've not had much experience with women/trans but I would really love to as I know I'm gonna enjoy it!! I identify as non binary but am female in form. I like to make meaningful connections and am creative and open minded.

Additionally I am in a ddlg dynamic and Daddy has set me a task of finding a lady for some fun for me cos he knows I'd enjoy it 😊😊 and yes, of course he'd like to join in at some point (hes only human) but I'm not here for unicorn hunting. If the vibe is right and that's something that organically happens then that is an option. little in my dynamic with Daddy but this doesn't need to be the dynamic with everyone. Flexible switch looking to make fun and meaningful connections 😊😊😊 xxxxxxxxx