For some, fetish and kink can be a dark world of mysterious dungeons filled with latex covered dominatrixes, unidentified objects going into places you never thought possible, and people lining up to get trampled on. We could go on, but you should have a look around for yourself. While all this is part of the fun, there’s more to it than all that — a lot more.

Our alternative lifestyle can only exist because of one thing: trust — a profound and honest truth. The backbone of a healthy community is always trust. An open mind can see the truth and discover it happily. Nothing is taboo here; everything is safe to talk about and share — consensually of course. That’s the other part of trust — consent and the safety that comes with it.

Today dating is all about left and right swipes, quick fixes and endless questions or dick pics. On Fetish.com we want to slow things down a bit. Get to know you and your kinks. Allow you to express yourself in all your kinktastic glory so you can find the right person or people in a safe place with no fear of judgement.

It all started back in 2004, with a band of German brothers: David, Julius and Robby. The brothers saw a hole that needed filling - free dating websites were hard to come by back then. So they created a dating community called Poppen.de The first year saw 100,000 members register, proving to the brothers they were on the right track. As popularity grew, so did the site, adding new features and different types of paid memberships, but always keeping the basis of a free dating site.

Five years later, Poppen.de was booming as one of the busiest websites in Germany. As the company grew, so did their reach into other markets and partner sites. New features and benefits increased as well. Soon members were able to enjoy text and video chat. As numbers continued to rise, they started working on new ways to process large amounts of incoming data and ensure security for their members. By 2012 Poppen reached three million users! At this point, smartphones had taken over, so naturally, member benefits expanded to versions for mobile devices.

In 2017, the brand spanking new version of Fetish.com strutted its kinky stuff for all the world to see. With the focus to build a strong kink-positive dating community and provide content that educates vanillas and thrills kinksters while breaking down taboos about the mysterious and beautiful world of kink and fetish.

Fetish is about being who you are and surrounding yourself with safe, fun and trustworthy fetishists to enjoy the pleasures of kink. It’s about discovery and finding what makes you happy, sexually or otherwise. No matter what you’re into, there’s someone for everyone on Fetish.com. So try us out for free and together we can build a kink-positive world!

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