On here with my submissive and wouldn’t ever want to play without her. She is linked to my profile and I encourage you all to check her out. Like every couple, we think we’re the best couple, but we really are. We’re both nerdy, kind, and gentle souls who just happen to be certified freaks in the bedroom.
We are open to bringing a third into our play dynamic, but it has to be the right person and situation. We want someone who would be a good friend to us first and a play partner second (masochists to the front).
Other than that, I love the kink community. I love how we are all beautifully weird in our own unique ways. Maybe you’re our kind of weird or maybe you’re not. Either way, if you’ve read this far, I hope you find exactly what you’re looking for 🙂
Anything illegal, defecation, DDlg, furries
First and foremost, research a good safe word system (red, yellow, green like a stoplight is a good one). You’re going to start off doing a lot by trial and error and cementing your safe words ensures that you and your partner always have a good way to communicate if something isn’t Read more… working.
Second, try things. There are so many people with such a variety of kinks and different levels of experience. We all have to start somewhere and everyone understands that. Your best asset is exactly what it is meeting people in other areas of life - be kind and be interesting - there will be time to be mean later when you’ve established more trust with someone if that’s what you’re into.
Best of luck and be safe. I hope this is a really rewarding journey for you as it was for me.