I am here to keep track of events and existing friendships.

** DO NOT ASK ME TO BE YOUR DOM/MISTRESS/GODDESS/ETC. Same goes for addressing me with any of those descriptors. I'm not here for that, and I am so far from interested in people who approach me for a relationship that it's not even funny.*


Let my mail rating serve as an example of how I don't suffer idiots. If you come into my inbox with the intent of getting me to stroke your kink, I will not put up with it. I'm open to people who need more actual info about the community, or looking for resources.

I'm basically asexual, so please don't start a convo with what you'd like to do to me. Openers about my appearance will only succeed in getting an eye roll.

In real life, I'm a wannabe homesteader, Wastelander, cosplayer, prepper, geek, fail-gardener, and mother. I like the isolation that comes from living off the beaten path, where I can raise a family in peace and back to nature as I grew up. Years ago, I was labeled a pseudo extrovert, and it seems to fit quite well. The docs also slapped me on the spectrum as an aspie, so I've got that going for me!

In kink life, I fill the role of Amazon Dom with my kitten. There are many fetishes that I wander through, and I seem to discover something new and fun every other week. However, just because I enjoy a kink with the people I love doesn't mean I will enjoy it with others. The connection that I have with my significant others is unique to me, so outside of a scene, I do not play with strangers.

Add me, follow me, or message me - it's all good! Just don't be a dickweed, and I won't eat your face. ❤

Desires and Fantasies**
Someone who can read a profile would be a good start.

All of my kink and romantic needs are fulfilled by the wonderful people in my life, so I am NOT looking to add anyone else to my personal dance card at this point. My time management skills are shit, and with the perpetually busy days that come with adulting, I want to dedicate every bit of free time that I have to my existing polycule.