Just chilling, not looking for anything on here,
no , , ***, cnc, needles, fire, or knife play
BDSM does not have to mean sex and that goes the same for poly relationships. And relationships can go beyond typical romantic intimacy and labels. I am in somewhat the same boat, but I hope to find someone for the long haul someday. In the meantime, I am going to explore and find what I truly Read more… desire and want in a relationship.
Yeah that limbo hurts especially since you two sounded like you were close. It takes maybe a minute to message someone back, so there is no excuse for him to not to respond to you, unless he’s dead somewhere, which he isn’t cause you can see he is online. So it sounds like he is just being a jerk Read more… and ignoring you aka ghosting you. Who knows why tho…. Just know whatever excuses and reasons he gives does not justify it and you deserve better.
Reaching out once a day when they haven’t looked at any of your messages seems like a bit much especially if it’s been like a week or so. I send max like 3 messages spaced out, if they respond alright, if not that’s alright to.
It also depends on what the situation is tho, was this just for fun no Read more… strings attached and see where things go, then I dont have any expectations on what develops or happens. If this was a “we been talking for awhile and getting more serious and close” then heck yes I will be upset if they just ghost me out of their life. To be honest, it sounds like maybe a string along but no strings attached type of thing they are doing, like maybe he will contact you again if he wants a good time, but nothing more. I have been in similar situations and that’s all it is, a fun time when you both have the time and want it… so it’s up to you if you want to be that sporadic fun time, or cut it off because you want something more.
The hardest part for me sometimes is not taking their lack of commitment and communication personally. You are not alone and you are a person deserving of love, time, commitment, communication, and honesty. ❤️