About me
Interested in:
I’m looking for:
- Friends
- LTR (relationship)
- Events & Places
- Networking
- Swingers
- BDSM Lovers
Description
Hi there
I'm a sub, been in the lifestyle over 15 years. Over the years I've had face to face relationships, online dynamics & sessions.
I offer my submission restrictively....don't expect to slide into DMs and have me call you Sir. If you want my submission then you need to earn it!
SERIOUSLY....Please don't waste both of our time by messaging me asking me to be your sub. It doesn't work like that and being polite to those who thinks it does is getting tiring
I work hard to please and have very few hard limits. My kinks include Extreme Bondage, medium impact play, and (not nasty), puppy play, Breathplay and many more.
If I don't reply right away then that's because I'm not logged in.
Happy to chat but remember - it may be a while before I answer. Stay kinky!
I can't believe I have to say this....but do not bother contacting me if you're racist, xenophobic or any other type of judgemental prick!!! Our fringe society is judged by the mainstream so you should know better!!! We are all people, we are all one race. I won't tolerate any hatred.
Legal disclaimer: my profile, any comments I make on this website, any of my pictures or anything I post is my own information and property and is private. I do not give any individual or organisation or anything/anyone to use any of my information or content. Even if images are fuzzed or posts anonymised. I will seek to take legal action if anyone ignores this and my right to privacy.
Desires and Fantasies
My kinks include Extreme Bondage, medium impact play, and (not nasty), puppy play, Breathplay and many more.
My roles & archetype
My kinks & fetishes
I like:
- Anal Play (Active)
- Anal Sex (Active)
- Anal Plugs (Active)
- Animal Play (Active)
- Blindfolds (Active)
- Ball Gag
- BDSM (Active)
- BDSM Collar
- Begging (Active)
- Belt Fetish (Active)
- Ben Wa Balls (Active)
- Bisexual (Active)
- Bondage Body Bags (Active)
- Bondage (Active)
- Bondage Shackles (Active)
- Bondage Belt (Active)
- Bondage Cuffs
- Bondage Mittens (Active)
- Bondage Harness (Active)
- Bondage Hood
- Bondage Rope (Active)
- Bondage Sleepsack (Active)
- Bondage Tape (Active)
- Breath Play (Active)
- Breast Binder
- Chains (Active)
- Chastity (Active)
- Collar & Leash
- Corsets (Active)
- Cuckold (Active)
- Cunnilingus (Active)
- Deep Throating (Active)
- Dildos (Active)
- Discipline (Active)
- Threesomes (Active)
- Edging (Active)
- Erotica (Active)
- Extreme Bondage (Active)
- Face Slapping
- Restraints
- Fetish Wear (Active)
- FFM Threesome (Active)
- Floggers (Active)
- Forniphilia (Active)
- Gags
- Gangbang (Active)
- Torturer - Captive Prisoner (Active)
- Group Sex (Active)
- Rubber Fetish (Active)
- Hair Pulling (Active)
- Handcuffs (Active)
- Rough Sex (Active)
- Humiliation (Active)
- Hobble Skirt (Active)
- Kinky Sex (Active)
- Head Harness
- Patent Leather Fetish (Active)
- Latex Fetish (Active)
- Leather Fetish (Active)
- Masks (Active)
- Masturbation (Active)
- MMF Threesome (Active)
- Armbinder
- Multiple Orgasms (Active)
- Muzzle Gag (Active)
- Nipple Clamps (Active)
- Nipple Play (Active)
- Olfactophilia (Active)
- Oral Sex (Active)
- Orgasm Control (Active)
- Spanking Paddles (Active)
- Penis Gag (Active)
- Plastic Wrap (Active)
- Porn (Active)
- Posture Collar (Active)
- PVC Fetish (Active)
- Ring Gag (Active)
- Sapiosexual (Active)
- Sensory Deprivation (Active)
- Older Sex Partners (Active)
- Sex Toys (Active)
- Slave Training (Active)
- Spanking (Active)
- Spreader Bar (Active)
- Spit Fetish (Active)
- Strap-on (Active)
- Submission (Active)
- Swinger (Active)
- Sweet Pain (Active)
- Subservience (Active)
- Vacuum Beds (Active)
- Vibrators (Active)
- Wax Play
- Water Bondage (Active)
- Watersports (Active)
- Wet Look Clothing (Active)
- Whips
- Straitjackets
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I'm a sub, been in the lifestyle over 15 years. Over the years I've had face to face relationships, online dynamics & sessions.
I offer my submission restrictively....don't expect to slide into DMs and have me call you Sir. If you want my submission then you need to earn Read more… it!
SERIOUSLY....Please don't waste both of our time by messaging me asking me to be your sub. It doesn't work like that and being polite to those who thinks it does is getting tiring
I work hard to please and have very few hard limits. My kinks include Extreme Bondage, medium impact play, and (not nasty), puppy play, Breathplay and many more.
If I don't reply right away then that's because I'm not logged in.
Happy to chat but remember - it may be a while before I answer. Stay kinky!
I can't believe I have to say this....but do not bother contacting me if you're racist, xenophobic or any other type of judgemental prick!!! Our fringe society is judged by the mainstream so you should know better!!! We are all people, we are all one race. I won't tolerate any hatred.
Legal disclaimer: my profile, any comments I make on this website, any of my pictures or anything I post is my own information and property and is private. I do not give any individual or organisation or anything/anyone to use any of my information or content. Even if images are fuzzed or posts anonymised. I will seek to take legal action if anyone ignores this and my right to privacy.
Really?! 6 years in the lifestyle does not make you an expert. Nor does it give you the right to throw a toddler tantrum because people disliked your "advice". And you have no right to assume those of us who disagree don't have experience. I've been in the lifestyle for 15+ years, and am currently Read more… in the most amazing dynamic I've ever had. It's deeper than anything I've ever had before - and believe me, I've experienced a lot.
No one is an expert. I certainly am not, but I will not accept your toddler tantrum as an excuse to be so disrespectful to the rest of us.
Punishing a sub for communicating her anxieties and concerns?!?! Wow!!!
I completely agree Myrtz. I'm so shocked by your comments Silver779. Being a sub does not mean you simply accept anything and everything. If someone is treating you like shit then you absolutely don't stand for that. And mind games are not remotely acceptable. That's ***. Please don't give such Read more… terrible advice to newbies.
You absolutely should call him out. Being a sub doesn't mean allowing yourself to be walked all over. You deserve attention, and him not communicating regularly is not acceptable. At least not without some discussion or explanation. You definitely need to talk to him. And remember, as the sub you Read more… hold the control. You decide who to submit to and equally when to walk away. If you want to talk further feel free to message me.
Absolutely. I'm in no way saying that I suddenly trust someone because I've seen their face. But I certainly do NOT trust them if they are unwilling to show their face.
I think you're completely missing the point
I understand fooling around kinkily with someone while maintaining privacy, it isn't for me but I get it. But D/S is a lifestyle based on trust and communication. It is not D/S if there is no trust.
The first time I'd advice ***ing in your nappy / diaper while sat over the toilet or in the shower cubicle because it's highly probable it'll leak. Trial and error in terms of your general quantity of *** and the nappy capability.
Aww thank you ❤️🥰
I've gotten *** off quite a few "men" on this site about my profile. Apparently no real person would ever sit and write a profile. They get really really nasty. I'm almost ready for leaving the site I'm so fed up of it. So maybe that's why? Maybe others get this *** too so deleted the text on their Read more… profiles?
I'd suggest starting with what you'd be doing if you were there. Then figure out how to do that specific thing long distance. For example if you were going to spank him, then tell him to spank himself. Most things can be adapted to long distance
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