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Advice for new m/f couple 🙏
So we are a couple m/f that has no experience with being dominated nor do we even know if that's even something that is possible or sustainable because of the couple aspect. Also should we try an online Dom (preferably female but will consider male) or do physical meet up? We both are struggling Read more…with some anxieties which is why we are considering an online Dom. I want to eventually transition to a Dom but feel I need to go through the slave process to have a better understanding of the whole scene. We also don't mind paying at all but want someone genuinely into the BDSM scene. Thanks in advance for any advice it's all very much appreciated.
LikeHeavenSentMe, submissive4u2use, meaford559983and 7 more… · 10 Replies
If this is all role-play to you, then sure, you can be a sub, you can be a Dom, you can even be Galdalf if the mood strikes.
However, if it's a more serious dynamic you're seeking, it won't be a simple case of Read more… transitioning.
You're either a Dominant, a submissive/slave or you're a switch.
It's about knowing yourself and knowing which role fits you.
It sounds like you're at the start of your journey, so you just have to toss out the expectation and plans, because the best laid plans of mice and men often go awry.
My advise would be read threads here. Read articles. Read personal ads. You and your partner should Immerse yourself as much as you can.
Absorb information and take in informationand advice from people in the lifestyle.
Sooner or later the dots will join up and you'll both have a better understanding of the path going forward.
Sorry; I didn't take your comment that way at all. It's on me I felt like I implied I did; apologies, I wasn't being pointed.
I think there is benefit in being open to how someone learns, but defo understanding the limitations
If what I said about bottoming seemed to imply one could learn how to top from doing so I Read more… didn't mean for it to. I mean it more in a way of actually being a sub before you can be a Dom isn't necessary but it's not a bad idea to lab and learn on both sides and *from* both tops and bottoms. I didn't really relay my complete thought on that "out loud".
Yes... 100% partake in community, seek out diversity, avoid mentors and "educators" who don't also reccomend learning from an array of people other than themselves. Good ones will be open about their knowledge base and experience and will encourage you to vet them just like anyone else.