We are a Master and Slave couple, into everything Kinky looking to find some playmates. Jay has submitted completely to Dee, and trusts him totally. Dee is a Sadist, a soft Dom and carer. Jay is switch and a masochist and carer; and is submissive only to Dee and is looking to further develop her dominant and bi-sexual facets.
We are looking for a girl or couple to play with, either in a BDSM scenario or just a threesome or foursome having fun together, although the Master Slave dynamic will always be there between Dee and Jay. Our ideal girl would be a Submissive and our ideal couple both being Submissive but that's not essential.
The most important thing about BDSM is the element of trust, we need girls and couples in whom we can place our complete trust and our playmates should be prepared and able to trust us totally too.
Desires and Fantasies
Submissive sex slave
Whipping
Caning
Rope Play
Hot wax play
Dee
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
93% Voyeur
90% Sadist
84% Non-monogamist
83% Rigger
80% Daddy/Mommy
79% Master/Mistress
79% Experimentalist
76% Owner
68% Ageplayer
68% Dominant
56% Degrader
51% Brat tamer
48% Primal (Hunter)
48% Exhibitionist
26% Vanilla
18% Pet
18% Masochist
11% Submissive
9% Boy/Girl
4% Rope bunny
3% Degradee
0% Brat
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Slave
0% Switch
Jay
= Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
99% Slave
95% Boy/Girl
94% Experimentalist
91% Masochist
83% Degradee
83% Voyeur
81% Submissive
80% Non-monogamist
80% Ageplayer
75% Pet
73% Exhibitionist
64% Primal (Prey)
62% Switch
59% Brat
42% Daddy/Mommy
37% Sadist
33% Degrader
19% Dominant
12% Vanilla
11% Primal (Hunter)
10% Rigger
7% Owner
4% Master/Mistress
3% Brat tamer
Serious verbal ***, severe face slapping, severe punching.
Jay is sub to Dee only.
I always say (Master Dave speaking here) that BDSM is all about trust and respect, so of course the Dom should care for, respect and protect his Sub. It's the first rule. Anyone breaking the first rule is most definitely not an a true Dom or Master and has no right to describe themself as such. Read more… They are simply just evil bullies.
There's also The two knotty boys, they have some great videos (although YouTube have suspended some of their stuff, but they have their own website) and have a couple of really good books.
Well as most here have commented the answer is yes and no. I would say that that you do have it in you because you are intrigued and want to know more, so the learning part will bring out the Dom part of your psyche, in whatever form it takes for you.