Except for these things, I am open to exploration:
//; unhygienic, risky stuff (, , butthole licking, etc.); manipulation (especially gaslighting, it is a total hard limit and I will cut off immediately); chasity (on regular basis and/or outside sessions), once in a while for fun is ok; hypnosis that reduces intellect or brings drastic or extreme changes in me; conditional cnc in the later phases of the relationship is ok (like wearing something green lights it kind of stuff); no nonsexual and constant ; I am a submissive and not a slave (except for occasional roleplay); not into sadomasochism, especially serious kind; put into bondage for no reason, only to do nothing and sit in a corner by myself; 69 with men; photos or videos for posting or using for anything until we are close and I say yes, and photos or videos where I can be recognized in any way. I won't send any photos with my face until I have your basic personal details like name, address, a proper way to contact (like phone number); I won't naked pictures before we meet and confirm if we are going to meet again.
I value clear and honest communication.
He did say she liked to have sex, but in near past, something caused her to be disinterested in things they used to like.
Facts...
Wise words...
You seriously need to be more empathetic and emotionally mature. She likely needs help with mental health and clear communication, some break from everything, and someone to give her time, care, and attention.
Btw, why most of the experienced and wise dominants live so far away from me? 😢
I relate to this so much. I haven't been hurt in bdsm, but have been in general, and I am also a bit demisexual so I can't just become submissive to someone on command. I like committed d/s relationships and they need the natural build-up.
I am aware of the safety concerns. However, here it is only a discussion about a kink instead of discussing ways to practice it. And plus, this is not the first time the person I quoted has said something in a tone that is or is sort of hostile to the whole vibe of the conversation. I feel like Read more… what he wanted to convey could have been presented more maturely.