Edit: 28-03-24 I haven't updated this in aaaages but just if it is still relevant.
Latest sexual health check received today (test date 24-03-24) all green of course and happy to share sh.uk link prior to meeting, be safe people ?

I have no idea what the record for longest profile is, but I'm ruddy well going for it! (feedback appreciated of course)

TL,DR - Playful but serious, caring but mean. I'll fuck you up if you ask nicely

Current situation: (Updated 9th June 22)
I have tried various dating sites over lockdown etc. (been single for around 2 years and online dating during that time has been a struggle for us all!) I've been here for about 8 months but the profile was pretty much bare and I've only really added any details a few days ago. I've added the below detail, a few pics and am keen to see where things go.

About Me:
Firstly, I appreciate discretion. Whilst there will be a lot of waffle here, I purposely won't be putting up a huge amount of information regarding particular kinks etc.
I have been Dom for as long as I can remember and have around 12-15 years of experience across multiple relationships (some with girls who were natural subs, some required persuasion & other relationships remained vanilla - I never try and * my preferences on another) So whilst I am experienced, I appreciate there is ALWAYS more to learn.

I believe that I am by no means perfect (each of us are a work in progress) but that I do have a lot to offer the right person
Communicative (I will always be honest with my intentions)
I pride myself on my sense of humour
Good job (Financially stable)
Own house (live alone, can accommodate)
Own car (happy to travel and love a good road trip with a special someone)
Non-smoker and no alcohol, drug or gambling addictions
Incredibly open-minded and non-judgmental regarding sexual preferences

What I'm seeking:
I believe that the best experiences will come with the underlying respect and trust that can only be present with some form of relationship. So ideally that is what I'd like to find (I'm a total cuddleslut deep down)
That said, I know that I'm also a bit of a fussy bugger (in fact I'm far too fussy for someone who owns a mirror) so it's likely going to take time for me to enter into my next relationship.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that so long as I remain single I'm happy to keep an open mind as to who I talk to and for what purpose. There's still a lot I can offer to newer members of the community (and I actually love the mentorship side of things) and as above, with continuous improvement comes the need to learn from those subs who may well have more experience in an area than myself.

Online play:
I've always enjoyed setting tasks and the modern world means that I'm potentially only ever a few seconds away via Whatsapp etc. So with that in mind, I'm leaving my messages open for people globally. I also love to travel and so there's a good chance we could meet should we hit it off (it only takes a couple of hours to get to most of Europe and I'm always up for a weekend city break)
I'm actually new to the online only thing, so we'll see if / how it may work.

Final thoughts:
As above, Communication is very important to me. I'm very aware that people are often hounded on sites like this and harassed purely because we're kinky. Therefore you must be an easy fuck, right?
I know that this means you will often have your guard up and so if any of my messages seem to fall into just another fuckwit category I apologise. Text isn't really a great medium for getting to know people as tone and intention are so easily lost. It's difficult getting the balance between confidence / cockiness and interest / hassling as everyone has different limits.
Please try and give me the benefit of the doubt!

I will try and reply to anyone who messages me and would appreciate a response to any introduction I send, even if it is to politely decline if I'm not what you're seeking
I hope that this site and the people on it treat you all well, that we keep safe and can support each other through the mess that is life whilst getting a few kicks along the way.

Thank you for taking the time to read this! give yourself a cookie.

Standard disclaimer:
I have no issue with people having only fans etc. but if you're just pretending to be a sub to get paid then you'll be better off looking elsewhere, I do not consider myself a sugar daddy
I know there are plenty of fake profiles in either camp be they male / female / other or dom / sub / switch. Please verify your profiles and ideally, we'll chat or facetime early on so we can each see the other is genuine. (again, scammers beware)

===== Below is a mildly tweaked dump from my profile on KinkD. was feeling lazy Sorry! =====**
Hey, thanks for taking the time to read my profile ??
From London but now live in Gloucester.
I drive a bit for work, mostly Wilts & Oxfordshire but distance is not really an issue for me so happy to talk to people several hours away. (I can also accommodate as I have my own house.)
My first message is usually a polite hello (we need to confirm the basic physical attraction is in place and that my profile looks like that of someone you'd like to get to know etc.)
I don't have a set type and my previous partners (alt or vanilla) have shared little in common.
I enjoy good company, good conversation & making people laugh - as per pics, I don't always take myself seriously. I would like to think of myself as caring, open and supportive in and out of the bedroom, but my dominant side is always lurking.
I'm here looking for someone either experienced in or curious about submission. Ideally, they'll also believe that behind closed doors, very little should be off-limits between consenting adults. My most enjoyable sexual experiences were the result of trust, communication and wanting to find out what makes the other person tick.
Each person's needs differ, so starting with an agenda is only going to lead to disappointment and faked orgasms, and life is way too short for that nonsense.
In public I prefer to be discreet to the casual observer, looking like a nice "normal" couple (even if you're wearing a plug etc.) but knowing we can do anything to each other in private... That Jekyll & Hyde thing has a real appeal for me.
(Collars and fetish wear are fine, providing you're comfortable wearing them - I've had people worry they'd have to change their preferred accessories and that is certainly not the case)
On another note, I like taking pics & vids to enjoy later, but these are not shared online. I'm greedy like that! Of course this, along with everything else, is optional.
I have a somewhat healthy collection of toys & gear, but always happy to add more if there's something particular you're looking for (feel free to inspire me)
I'm lucky with the partners I've had and have experimented with most things, but aware that there is always something to discover for both of us (and I enjoy mentoring, so if you're new, don't panic)
I have no time for mind games, I'll always be open about my intentions, please do the same in return.

You won't find many. I am VERY open minded.
But those I do have will naturally be discussed before play x