Not insane at all Ff .... sadly a few alleged Doms let the rest of us down, its ok having a Dominant or subservient personality, its who we are , but its no excuse to trying to inflict that on a total stranger aside from which, no one can claim to be a Dom if they dont treat a potential submissive Read more… with total respect from the start as the whole dynamic of a true D/s relationship is built on total trust respect and understanding.

That kind of approach is totally unacceptable and disrespectful, a true Dom/Domme will treat you with the utmost respect as Dominance is only born out of you as a submissive choosing to submit to a particular Dom/Domme and then trusting them to use that submission to satisfy both your needs... Read more… whether those needs include *** and at what level is determined through the conversations you have prior to making the choice whether to submit to that particular Dom/Domme or not.