ENFP - T DOM switch

Welcome to my dark little corner of fetish.com
peoplme who know me call me Ed,
I’m an experienced but evolving South East London Dom .
I love music and as a DJ i'm always looking to share my passion with anyone who's interested.

THE KINKY STUFF
I have decided to spllit this into lists to give a quicker view or reference of the DOM me

MUSTS
Impact play (it doesnt have to be harsh but it has to be an option
Breast play (size doesnt matter in this case)
Bondage (mainly cuffs )
Punishment

LIKES
Oral …. especially while cuffed etc (receiving is to me the perfect sign of submission after all it begins in a kneeling possition ..... ok not always but you get it)
Sensory play (blindfolds etc)
Role play
Kissing
Touching (i love a good shot oxytocin)

PREFERED
openness to tasks and chores
masochists
degradees
CNC
CMNF


I wear my heart on my sleeve quite often and although i have some dark sadistic kinks at times I am always looking to help a sub grow, learn, expand and feel safe and happy.

I want a sub to know whatever happens I am behind them
A good Dom allows a sub to soar freely while keeping them safe from falling
(good god thats mushy lol)

As a point of honesty I have Parkinsons which is currently controlled by medication this has 2 slight drawbacks.

One being that i prefer to stay local to home as if my medication starts to drop i need to be able to lay down almost straight away (although recently I have been prescribed with diazepam which has made this less of an issue)

The second being that Levadopa and Ropinerole the medications commonly used to treat PD cause impulsive behaviour and can accentuate any type of addictive behavior so I do suffer from HYPERSEXUALITY at times.
I unfortunately don’t have any effect on reducing this so if i'm being OTT you can guarantee when the effects lessen i will realise ive been an ass lol,
that said in march 2024 i was given deep brain stimulatiion implants which they are currently configuring gradually to negate the need for so much medication so im reasonably confident that by august /sept 2024 parkinsons wont even be an issue

BEING HONEST PARKINSONS MEDICATION ISSUES AFFECTS ME CUMULATIVELY FOR ABOUT HOUR OR TWO A DAY GENERALLY AND THE EFFECT AND TiME IS MASSIVELY REDUCED WITH POSITIVE DISTRACTIONS SO ISNT A MASSIVE ISSUE
MY DJING ALSO HELPS AS A POSITIVE DISTRACTION ( you may find you have to do something special to get me away from my decks at times but I’m sure you find something that works lol)

I'm definitely not an axe er they don’t usually give out their address and number beforehand lol.
I can assure you i'm very gladly open to a long term ongoing dynamic (something else that axe ers are not known to be open to lol)

If you’d like to know more about me please message me and ask.
Please don’t assume that my Parkinson’s is a reason to pass me by.
That would be a mistake on your part..

Also Communication in large doses is paramount to me if this bothers you u shouldnt stop here
as it won’t work

That said I know I can overdo it so polite honesty is always welcome

NO GHOSTING I will lay a thermonuclear level smackdown on you
NO TIME FOR GHOSTERS
IF YOU DECIDE YOU DON’T WANT TO CHAT ANYMORE BE BRAVE ENOUGH TO SAY
that being said I’m open to chat so feel free

So many see a list of kinks and think it’s all in black and white. …..
the answers are often grey ask me i'm open to so many things

Desires and Fantasies
Please ask me they’re massively diverse as am I

soft limits
3 somes (willing to ttry)
please note this is not an exhausted list and i'll add more as and when i think of them

hard limits
im STRICTLY STRAIGHT
watersports
hard sports

minors
***s etc