Here i go again...
New to the site, not to kink. Have been told this is a "better" site for kinky dating and i'm willing to give it a try. Unfortunately it appears no one local has caught on yet. So kinky long distance friends are welcome instead.
I've been into bdsm my entire adult life. Most would never guess that i'm submissive, but that is where i'm happiest. Behind closed doors i'm a good girl with some masochist needs, high sex drive, little tendencies, and a need to please. My list of kinks grows longer the more i explore.
I love DaddyDom types who aren't intimidated by a playful hard to tame girl. I'm not a brat but i will push boundaries and test limits. And i need a man who will give me the safety and space to expand my own boundaries too. I adore bondage, spanking and all sorts of impact play. I need to give and receive pleasure, i want lots of attention and in return i'll adore and maybe even obey.
The basics of course.. nothing to do with kids/***s/gross things. I don't like to be tickled. I am not an exhibitionist. And no, i won't switch and dominate you.
Oooh i got one. Here's a clue: Tell me what you want.. what you really really want?
Bondage and knifeplay together are one of my favorite things. Scary, exciting, there's a feeling of vulnerability and such a buzz of energy. Pretty sharp things in delicate places, teasing, sliding across flesh with the constant threat of *** if i wiggle too much, trying hard to keep still and be Read more… a good girl but it's very very challenging. Delicious.
As so many others have said, it's comfort and securty. Peace. Freedom to just BE in the moment and experience everything fully without having to plan and execute every detail. It's feeling that flow of energy and being able to fully let go and surrender, a rare thing in my life. It's being able Read more… to please and give to someone i know wants to take from me, meaning i can go deeper and give more. And if i'm lucky it's also a red bottom and enough orgams to melt my brain completely for a while by the time he's done.