I have been in the lifestyle for 15 plus years. Looking for a long term relationships that is D/s . Out of the 15 years 6 years of those, I was in a high protocol relationship. I don't do online relationships so unless you want real life and in person I won't be interested. Currently, I am part of 7 different groups on the Gulf Coast of Mexico . Experience is something I have and I don't do games.
I am a little loving caring person that understands what submission is and know how to take care of my Dominant. I am pansexual and also transgender with my legal gender changed. I don't want so if that is a goal that we won't match. Yes, I am the same gigglesthru as on Fetlife . I am pretty up a open book.
I am an edge /rack player so if you are not into those type of activities we won't match again.
Ask me
Definitely, you are not alone.
Make sure he understands it is a lifestyle and not cosplay. Alot of people have ideas of what D/s is but not the reality of it
Take your time make them earn your trust.
Love them, have my done
Definitely a difference between kinky and D/s. Kinky are part timers that come and play then when tires run back to the vanilla world leaving behind anything D/s related
Been in lifestyle for 13 years. With 6 years owned as property in a Femdom relationship 24/7 . I don't do part time. Everything lifestyle related is very taken very serious.
Take chances but keep everyone at arms length. My worst experiences are with people I have known for years. I was just outed by an ex friend of 13 years. Don't trust anyone, especially they gossip about others because then they are gossiping about you as well
There is a difference between those that live the lifestyle and those that are just kinksters and not really D/s. It depends on the level that you take the activities. Also I will add have rough sex is not BDSM as some vanilla people like to claim
I believe it does.