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Gender Man
Age 48
Status Single
Height 186cm
Weight 92kg
Body shape Athletic
Sexual position Versatile
Eye colour Blue
Hair colour Brown
Hair length Long
Beard 5 o'clock shadow
Orientation Bisexual
Ethnicity Caucasian white
Origin USA
Pubic Hair Shaved
Body hair None
Dick length 22cm
Zodiac sign Capricorn

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I am a therapist and enjoy KINK and other sexual explorations. I have many curiosities about people and their sexuality and absolutely enjoy exploring my own sexuality and turn ons.

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Some of my most intimate fantasies involve orgasm control; mutual masturbation; random and public sexual acts; and, sensate touch.

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I am a therapist and enjoy KINK and other sexual explorations. I have many curiosities about people and their sexuality and absolutely enjoy exploring my own sexuality and turn ons.
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Orgasm Control
I am fairly new to BDSM and various techniques, play, etc. I have investigated and explored the experience of orgasm control frequently over the past few years. I am interested in hearing others' experiences with orgasm control; tips; techniques; and, anything that can enhance that experience. Thank you in advance for your responses!
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Deleted profile Denial is a powerful thing. Orgasm control can be quite challenging. We'd been experimenting with chastity cages for a while and that was not going to work for me. Those darn things are quite uncomfortable and serve no real purpose. So, about three weeks ago, I decided if I was to be orgasm-free, I Read more… could maybe do it without the constraints of a cage.
Last week, we were getting ready to play a game, where if I won, I could ask for release and if I lost, punishment was in order and orgasm would be denied. As I was about to sit down, she tells me, "you better not lose or I'll beat the crap out of you". At that moment, I felt liquid rushing up my penis. I managed to get my hand in my pants just to catch the flow of ejaculate. No orgasm, just a release of built-up fluid. We were both s***chless. I ended up winning but felt I didn't deserve an extra release :).
Like 06.12.2023 2:20:06
TimtheMerciless
TimtheMerciless Probably my best experience of orgasm denial was meeting up with my then girlfriend for coffee and just being ourselves. This was during a multi -day chastity play episode. We were not exactly playing the roleplay roles, just being natural and on the surface having enjoyable interesting vanilla Read more… conversation instead.
Our conversation touched briefly a few times on the kink dynamic. I reflected on how despite enjoying her company on a vanilla level I was, in the background as it were: struggling with how erotically aware of her presence as a woman I was. As I suspected , she sensed this undertone and was enjoying my discomfort .
So that was probably as part of our exploration of that kink that was actually the hottest.
LikeeR75089 · 05.12.2023 13:30:33
lesdevon
lesdevon I used to have a sub i edged for hours get her to the peak stop then start again i lept this going for as long as possible untill she was begging to orgasm its the best orgasms she ever had I used to have a sub i edged for hours get her to the peak stop then start again i lept this going for as long as possible untill she was begging to orgasm its the best orgasms she ever had
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